A beam of light shines through the gap in the leaves, illuminating a small patch of grass on the ground. Under the sun, the breeze is blowing, and the grass is gently swaying, as if it is excitedly greeting the world.
If women's youth is like this little piece of grass, thriving in the sun and breeze, then they should be the same - not to be locked in a small space, but to look up at this great land, that vast sky.
The stream flows down from the valley, and the crystal clear mountains and rivers ripple in circles. Wildflowers bloom on the roadside, bees buzz by, and two young girls sit by the stream and chat.
I heard my parents say that girls should not go to too many places, they should be honest at home, and finding a good family to marry in the future is a perfect life. The young girl's face in the blue dress was full of innocence.
That's right, it's okay to be comfortable at home, isn't it? The other girl said this, but her eyes were full of curiosity, and she couldn't help but look out of the mountain.
This is like a portrayal of many girls, on the one hand, they have not been able to break out of the house and are full of illusions about the outside world; On the one hand, they suppress their curiosity and desire to explore because of habits and teachings.
In fact, girls also have the right to wander the world, and they also need to go out of the house to see this magical world and meet all kinds of people and things.
This insight will become their valuable experience, precipitated, and turned into a calm and unhurried temperament.
Time flies, the years change, when the girl fades away, when the woman puts away the youth, they will definitely leave the mark of those years.
Some women are no longer young, but they are still like little girls, especially infatuated with the so-called 'prince', always looking forward to the day when Prince Charming will come to her side. ”
It's naïve. Have we not fantasized about the prince too? Later, I realized that the most reliable thing is just myself. ”
The former girl has faded her childishness in this wind and sun, and has been replaced by a light vicissitudes of life.
They have also been delusional about romantic love, fantasizing that someone will hold their hearts; also humbly begged for pleasure, just willing to exchange a trace of warmth.
Until one day I wake up, love is my own reflection, the beautiful appearance in my heart.
So they learn to love themselves and water their souls with gentleness and kindness. They are no longer obsessed with love, but they are more loving.
They were also attached to their parents and dependent on their friends; I am afraid that I will lose my way in this complicated world, and I don't know where to go.
until some people leave resolutely, and some bonds are overwhelmed and broken; Only then did they realize that they had to carve a way for themselves in the face of thorns.
So they set off from home, stumbling and stumbling on the road, but in the pain of the fall, they learned to bandage their wounds, and finally dared to move forward.
I used to think that people laughed at me and cared a lot about the eyes of the people around me. But later I realized that not all opinions are worth caring about, and it is good to have a clear conscience. ”
Yes, the world's vision is often breathless, but in fact, the sky never increases or decreases a cloud. ”
I've also learned not to compete anymore. What you want may not be able to get, what you get may not be wanted, and diligently pursuing it is often just a superfluous move. Only by letting go of everything can you see what you really want. ”
The years have passed, and they have experienced so much. I paid my youth by mistake and hit a wall in my life, but I was also sublimated by hitting the south wall over and over again.
They understand the impermanence of the world and look down on the gains and losses of fame and fortune; Let go of calculations and learn to trust in the inherent goodness of human nature.
They know how not to ask about the gain, but only about the pay; It's not about the number of fruits, it's only about whether the heart is clear.
They no longer care about gains and losses like when they were girls, but live in the present, grateful for the past, and looking forward to the future.
They understand that their fate is in their own hands, and they no longer wait for an olive branch from heaven, but work hard, believing that hard work will always pay off.
They know how to forgive and be grateful.
Because they have learned, in going round and round, they are happy but not at ease; Success is nothing but a clear conscience.
Four. 
Do you remember the world we imagined when we were children? ”
Of course, that dream is the perfect world. ”
In fact, the real world is also beautiful, that is, we have to learn to find beauty. ”
In the sun, butterflies fly through the flowers.
They walked slowly, holding their arms. The wrinkles on the face have been modified to be beautiful, but the calmness exuded from the whole body is a precious charm precipitated by the years.
The girl's gaze, though clear and moving; The girl's heart, although mysterious.
However, in the eyes of women, there is a very mundane solemnity and a very deep openness.
They were confined to the door, and then flew over the mountains; They had been trapped in the kitchen, but they had finally made their way.
The ordeal did not defeat them, but melted into their blood and bones, and became their warm and tolerant motto and courage.
So in the face of this colorful world, they have no fear, only understanding and tolerance.
They finally understand that the price of growing up is not painful, and that pain is actually a treasure. They willingly accept darkness and hurt because they know that it will help them thrive.
Facing ahead, they are no longer confused and helpless girls.
It's a woman, holding her own horizon.