In the ocean of socialization, the most comfortable scale is not the distance from above, but the realization of spiritual communication and collision between individuals. You and I can feel the respect and comfort given by each other, and understand that each other's three views are the same and the same cognition. However, there are some people in life who speak straightforwardly, have an impatient personality, and are not quick enough to think, but they ignore whether the words are appropriate in a specific environment. The differences between people come from the great diversity of feelings, and we need to learn to empathize and look at problems from the perspective of others. Because true understanding and respect are based on emotional empathy. 
Interpersonal communication with high IQ is like a lubricant that makes social interaction smoother. They skillfully avoid unnecessary friction and promote harmony and friendly interaction between people. Those behaviors that speak without thinking through the brain are often the embodiment of unsophisticated and unpolished.
People will eventually learn to communicate tactfully, but before that, they must go through the grinding of life. Interpersonal communication and conversation is an art that needs to be mastered properly, and people need to carefully choose the way of communication that suits them in order to continue to grow.