After college, I found that my roommates and I were not the same kind of people at all, and I went out with them at first, but I found myself uncomfortable, and then I began to be alone. Going to class, getting out of class, going to the library, eating, watching movies, eating hot pot, playing guitar, running, playing badminton with people you don't know, and then traveling alone, I will be very anxious at the beginning, I care too much about the eyes of others, but now I feel very good, free, I can do whatever I want, I don't have to look at the eyes of others, and time really belongs to me when I am alone. By the way, I'm not isolated, and my popularity is okay.
A passage from "One Hundred Years of Solitude":"I prefer the time when no one cares about me to the days when people are controlling my emotions. Being alone makes your heart more free and chic. There is no need to dwell on other people's emotions, nor do you need to deliberately judge the minds of others, people's lifelong pursuit is probably freedom. "I like to be alone, it's comfortable, it's quiet, I don't have to think about other people's thoughts, I can do whatever I want, I don't want to talk if I don't want to, but I don't feel lonely.
When I'm alone, I'm the truest version of me. Socializing is the need of life, and solitude is self-enjoyment. Cook every day, keep exercising, and read well. When you are able to manage your life on your own, the more stable the kernel will be, and the more relaxed the state will be. I agree with this passage: Life is a practice of constantly accepting oneself and perfecting oneself. Only by reconciling with oneself again and again, facing one's shortcomings and strengths, and accepting one's abilities and circumstances, can one have a stronger heart. ”
Life is short for a few decades, and instead of trying to please others, it is better to devote time and energy to improving yourself.