I am Li Hao, 28 years old this year, an engineer in a software company, with a monthly salary of 8,000 yuan, which is considered a middle class. My parents were ordinary workers, and they thought I was old enough to get married, so they arranged a blind date for me, saying that they were the daughter of their colleague, who was beautiful, had a gentle personality, and was a good girl.
I didn't have much interest in blind dates, but for the sake of filial piety to my parents, I agreed. I chatted with the girl on WeChat for a few days, her name is Wang Ting, she is a beautician in a beauty salon, and her monthly salary is 3,000 yuan, which is much lower than me. She sent me a few **, I think she looks pretty good, a bit like the heroine in the TV series, with big eyes, a straight nose, red lips, **white, and a well-proportioned figure, I am secretly happy in my heart, I think this blind date is still a little interesting.
I wanted to meet her and see if she was really that nice, so I asked her out for dinner on the weekend, but she said she had something to do and pushed it. I asked her out again for the next weekend, and she said she had something to do and pushed it again. I thought she was very cold, not like she was interesting to me, so I was a little angry and wanted to give up this blind date, but my mother and her mother both urged me, saying that she was a good girl, but she was just shy, and asked me to give her one more chance and not give up easily.
I had to ask her out for dinner again, and this time she finally agreed, and we made an appointment at a mid-range restaurant, and I arrived half an hour early, found a window seat, and waited for her to come. I waited for half an hour before she came, and brought two girlfriends, one named Xiaohong and the other named Xiaofang, they are all beauticians like her, I knew at a glance that they were here to make soy sauce, and I felt a little unhappy.
As soon as I looked at Wang Ting, I felt disappointed, she was much worse than the appearance on **, ** was a big beauty, in reality she was a little ordinary, her eyes were not big, her nose was not straight, her lips were not red, ** she was not white, and her figure was not symmetrical, I think she used beauty software and filters to deceive me. And her attitude is also very cold, she keeps talking to her girlfriend and doesn't pay much attention to me, I think she doesn't want to go on a blind date with me at all, just come to have a white meal, and I feel even more unhappy.
I had already decided in my heart that I didn't want her, but for the sake of face, I still behaved politely, and talked to them about some irrelevant topics, such as work, weather, movies, etc., I ordered a few dishes, but they added a lot, ate happily, and drank a few glasses of wine, I looked at them, and felt that they were here to consume me, and I was even more unhappy.
After eating, I paid the bill, a total of 690 yuan, I think it is very expensive, but I didn't say anything, I was going to say goodbye and leave, but she suddenly transferred 520 yuan to me, saying that she asked for AA, and said that this was the first test that her best friend gave me, to see if I really liked her, or just her appearance. She said that she didn't want to find a man who only valued money, she wanted to find a man who could be equal to her, and she said that in this way she could see a man's qualities and personality.
I was on fire at the time, I felt that she was too disrespectful to me, regarded the blind date as a game, and treated me as a fool, I took the money, replied to her with a "we are not suitable", and left, never wanting to see her again. I think she is a selfish and hypocritical woman, she is not looking for a sincere and equal partner, she is looking for an ATM that can spend money on her, she is trying to take advantage of me, she is trying to play with me, I don't regret breaking up with her, I believe that my fate is still waiting for me.
I went home and deleted her WeChat, deleted her **, deleted her**, deleted everything about her, I didn't want to have any contact with her anymore, I wanted to forget her, forget this blind date, forget this shame, I wanted to start over and find my happiness again.