As the saying goes: how many times have you accumulated good karma in previous lives, you will have a chance in this lifeLet's take a boat ride together；How many lifetimes of merit have been accumulated in the previous life, and only in this life?Sleep together
Look for two people in the crowdHand in hand and support each otherIt's not easy!
Both love and marriage need to be accompanied by each other, but love alone is not enough to maintain a long-term partnership; It takes trust and love to sustain this feeling.
It's not hard to be a lifelong buddy – just do it"Three more, three less, three don't".: Caring for each other is more than complaining and blaming, and being tolerant and generous is less than selfish, imperfect oneself to the lover more than shortcomings mistakes.
Three more
1. Be more concerned
There is a saying:"Love is not expensive, but long. ”
When the two of them are causedDaily expenses or trivial thingsWhen there is a dispute, it is even more necessaryA heart of mutual understanding。One party should understand the other party's efforts, and the other party should appreciate the bitterness of the work.
The most ableThe way to maintain affection is to care for each other
2. Be respectful
Marriage needsPay attention to the sense of proportion。Everybody isIndividuals who are independent, even if the relationship is good, you should give the other person some space. When the two get along,Extreme control is very taboo.
Over-interventionEverything is equal to what will beEmotions are squeezed to death。Understand and support each other's interests and hobbiesDiscuss and solve the family's major problems togetherDon't snoop on each other's privacy。Marriages can only last if they respect each other.
3. Encourage more
Beautiful marriageNever miss the act of appreciation；A good spouse can always notice each otherSuperior qualityand be frequentTestimonials and affirmations
Convey emotional needsExpress your inner feelings and infect others
Three less
1. Less suspicion
The foundation of stability between husband and wife is built on:Trust each otherAbove; WhileOver-doubtIt is easy to destroy the emotional connection, and even if you sleep and lie together, it is difficult for both parties to get along in real harmony.
Reduce doubts and use the position of others as the standardIncrease one point of leniency。When you behaveAssertive attitude, the distance between husband and wife will be quickly eliminated.
2. Complain less
In a couple's relationship, there will inevitably be someFriction and conflict。The husband and wife each play their own role in the family and assume their own responsibilitiesToil and hardship
Endless whiningwill be loweredThe quality of the marriageto becomeA pool of stagnant water。We should learnPatience and retreatto make marriage better.
3. Less anger
Many unpleasant things often happen in life. When we receive someone else'sDamageMany people will be angryVent on your partner.
And when we're rightWhen life is not satisfiedWe can do it calmlyPour out the bitter waterGive to each other, let each other be our audience. This way not only is itRelieves stress, but also to enhance the relationship.
Three don'ts
1. Don't turn over old accounts
Every timeTurning over old accounts, which is equivalent to inSprinkle salt on the wound of the other party
Even if it isNo matter how good a marriage, and can't bear the past again and againEntanglement
The things of the past are a thing of the pastIt's no longer worth ruining feelings for the past
Don't bring it upThings from the past, to cherish isLife now
2. Do not expose shortcomings
No one wants to be exposedown weaknesses。Exposing someone else's weakness is like being inSprinkle salt on the woundThe same.
Love someone, should be at the same timeEmbrace his shortcomings。Despite the fact that the other person has many shortcomings, he is still youThe most caring and intimate lover.
Don't be temporaryImpulsiveDamageThe feelings of the lover.
3. Do not argue about right and wrong
Actually,Get along in harmonyMore important than the truth of the matter. Win or lose, obsessed with the pursuit of truth and ignore feelings, all justBehaviors that outweigh the losses
If you are angry and only care about saying the wrong thing, it is better to choose them allSilence。Once you've calmed down, communicate wellThere is no problem that cannot be solved.
Husband and wife get along,Harmony is important。When the atmosphere is harmonious, so is family lifeHarmony and contentment.
Marriage is likePrecious porcelain,It needs to be treated with care and cared for.
On the way to marriage,We should cherish the affection, less anger, and more communication between both parties, as well as less complaining and more understanding, and don't give up easilyEven ifFacing difficultiesDon't eitherIt's easy to say separate. Marriage willMore sweet and happy,Feelings willDeeper and more reliable.