Participate in your child's education and live as your child admires.
Three more
Take more responsibility
Parents are lifelong teachers of their children. Excellent parents do not depend on the level of culture or the amount of money, but whether they have a sense of responsibility.
The responsibility of parents is not only to teach knowledge, but also to care about their children's growth and inner world.
Parents are also the habitual supervisors of their children. Only by strict requirements and supervision can we cultivate children who are self-conscious and self-disciplined.
Spend more time
Parents' love for their children should not only be reflected in words, but also in actions. And companionship is one of them, and children who are often accompanied can not only get better physical and mental development. At the same time, they will become confident and optimistic, able to deal with failures and setbacks in life, and will also let them know how to be grateful.
Multi-cooperation
The better parents and teachers work together, the more successful their child's education will be.
Parents respect the work of teachers, understand the contributions of teachers in school, and teachers communicate with parents more to maintain the relationship between home and school, so that children can really benefit.
Three less
Less commands
In the eyes of many people, a child who obeys orders is a good child, but in fact, doing so is hurting the child.
Being called around for a long time, the child is in a position of passive obedience, which is not conducive to the development of his personality.
A harmonious parent-child relationship should be one in which the parents are happy to listen to the childrenParents know how to listen to their children's words.
Be less reasonable
Children's way of thinking is not as good as that of adults, if it is just reasonable, it is likely to be ineffective, and it is more important for children to experience. It's more important to do it with reason than to say it with reason.
When communicating, you should not let your intense emotions control you, but communicate with your child calmly but seriously, and solve problems with your child.
Less material rewards
Parents should learn to make good use of material rewards and maintain proportion. Even if it is to be done, it should not be rewarded for results, but for good actions.
More importantly, family education should be based on spiritual encouragement, supplemented by material rewards.
The low-level encouragement is language, and the higher-level encouragement is behavior, such as a hug, a smile, etc. Don't make promises lightly, if you make a promise, you have to keep it.
Three don'ts
Don't do everything
Parents are depriving their children of their autonomy by doing everything, and in the end they will only raise an adult giant baby.
A parent's love for her child is a drifting separation. As a parent, children know how to let go, so that children can fly boldly and truly grow.
Don't compare children to each other
Each flower has its own fragrance, and each flower has its own beauty.
Every child is unique, we must learn to appreciate our own children, praise them in a targeted manner, affirm their contributions, and let them live their most beautiful lives.
Don't give up on self-growth
The royal way to educate children is for parents to persistently cultivate themselves. The process of raising children is also the process of self-growth of parents.
Parents should keep learning, keep up with the pace of the times, and grow up. At the same time, teach by example and be a good example. A good tutor is the key to a child's success.
The most successful parents are those who are involved in their children's education and live as they are admired.
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