The relationship between siblings has always been considered one of the most intimate and strong relationships in life's journey.
However, even the closest family relationships can inevitably go wrong.
If siblings compare themselves to each other, compete in secret, be friendly on the surface, and slander in secret, it means that their relationship may have come to an end, and no matter how much you force it, it will only be over. It will make you move farther and farther away from each other.
1. Compare with each other and compete secretly.
Family relationships between siblings should be based on mutual understanding, support, and respect. But in reality, comparisons and covert competition often occur.
This phenomenon often stems from competition for family resources or a desire for parental attention and approval.
Sibling rivalry is inevitable, but when it becomes too intense and unhealthy, it can have a negative impact on sibling relationships.
The phenomenon of mutual comparison and covert competition is manifested in various aspects such as academic ability, career development, and appearance.
Comparisons between siblings often lead to jealousy and imbalance between each other, and even lead to long-term conflicts and quarrels.
In this case, the relationship between siblings can gradually become strained, distant, and may even break down.
2.Friendly on the surface, but full of insults behind the scenes.
Brothers and sisters can not only compete with each other and compete in secret, but they can also be friendly on the surface and insult each other behind the scenes.
This phenomenon is often manifested in maintaining a harmonious appearance in front of outsiders, while behind the scenes, secretly sarcastic and belittling the other party.
This behavior may stem from long-term resentment or grievance, or it may be motivated by competition for family status or resources.
This phenomenon of superficial kindness and secret insult often leads to the breakdown of trust between siblings, and even leads to conflicts and friction within the family.
This phenomenon can make the relationship between siblings appear false and insincere, which can have a negative impact on growth and development.
The relationship between siblings is one of the most important relationships in life, but it is also one of the most susceptible to external factors.
If siblings compare themselves to each other, secretly compete with each other, appear to be friendly on the surface, but secretly slander each other, it means that their relationship may be coming to an end.
There is no need to maintain a semblance of peace at this time. It's better to live calmly.