When women reject men, they rarely tell the truth, for example, they think your conditions are too poor, they don't like you for your low education, they think you are not worthy of them, etc.
Because the truth is hard to hear. It's important to stick to the fine lines in life so that you can see each other in the future. If a woman tells the truth, she is likely to trample on a man's self-esteem. It hurts a lot.
Women often need to play the "good guy card" so that they can politely refuse without being provoked. See if you've heard of the 10 "good man cards" that women like to play when they turn down men.
1.You're really nice, but I have someone else in my heart.
This is the same as what Baoyu said to Daiyu in "Dream of Red Mansions": "Even though you are born beautiful, your heart is rough." "Man, no matter how good the conditions are, women. The heart has been taken over by another person. The great thing about this card is that it kills two birds with one stone, singing the praises of men and expressing women's feelings.
2.You're a nice guy, but I think we're better suited to be friends.
This "good guy card" can be called a classic among the classics. A woman's gentle "you are a good person" is like sending a warm certificate to a man, but the subsequent "as a friend, you deserve more" is like being poured a bucket of cold water. Men, you must learn to find the right balance between warm and cold water.
3.I appreciate your kindness, but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.
This card usually appears when a woman has no feelings for a man, but does not want to hurt him directly. They will use excuses like "I don't want to be in a relationship" to temporarily stop a man's passion. Men, when you hear this reason, you may want to give your woman some time and space.
Four. You're a very interesting person, but I don't think our personalities are compatible.
Incompatibility is a big problem. When a woman says something like this, it usually means that she already knows something about the man, and there is an insurmountable gulf between them. Men, don't be discouraged. Personalities can be adapted, but only if they are willing to change for each other's sake.
5.I love being with you, but I don't want to develop a relationship.
This "good guy card" is a bit confusing. Women clearly say they like to be with men, but why don't they want to develop romantic relationships?
In fact, they may simply see men as good playmates or people to talk to, without a deeper emotional connection.
Men, if you find yourself in such a situation, why not adjust your thinking and role positioning?
6.You are good to me, but I can't reciprocate your affection.
Some men go out of their way when courting a woman, but often don't get a response. When a woman sends out this "good man card", she is actually telling the man: "I am impressed by your single-mindedness, but just because you are impressed does not mean that your feelings will disappear." Men, don't "Don't let your single-mindedness be yours." "Burden!
7.I think you deserve better.
This sentence sounds like a woman complimenting a man, but it is actually a negative. They think men are better, but not worthy of men. Men, don't settle for these words. Because the subtext of a woman may be something like this: "You're a good person, but I don't like you. ”
8.I'm happy with my life now and don't want anything to change.
This "good guy card" usually appears in women who already have a stable life. They may feel that their lives are already good right now and they don't want to upset that balance because of a relationship. Men, if you really like such women, you have to learn to respect their choices and lifestyles.
9.We're sorry, but we can't provide you with the response you requested.
When a woman knows that a man can't give her the love she expects, she chooses to reject him with this sentence. This sentence not only expresses the woman's apology, but also expresses the woman's attitude. Gentlemen, don't mind if this happens to you! Let's give each other a chance to try again.
10.I hope that our relationship will not go any further and that we can maintain the status quo.
Some men and women have a certain emotional foundation between them, but the woman does not want the relationship to go further. They may feel that they are already in a good position and are not willing to take risks and venture into uncharted territory.
Men, if you're happy with the status quo, keep having a good time! But if you want more, you have to learn to be brave and go for it.
Conclusion: The "good man card" issued by women seems to have a strong influence on men's likes and dislikes. But that being said, love is voluntary for you and me, not forced.
Therefore, when men pursue love, they must be brave, but they must also know how to let go at the right time. All the men who have received the "Good Guy Card", don't be discouraged! After all, there are so many wonderful things in this world waiting to be discovered.