Every child's growth path is different, some children are naturally intelligent and have excellent academic performance; Some children may face various learning difficulties and become so-called scumbags. Parents' anxieties and expectations about their children's learning are often touched upon by all sorts of funny examples. In this article, some parents' real experiences of their children's scumbag state may seem a little sad and funny, but there is no lack of food for thought.
Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and some parents face the challenges of their scumbag sons, like riding a roller coaster, happy for a while and depressed for a while. There is a son of a parent, who was once jokingly called by the teacherCollege studentsSon No. 1", he had excellent grades in elementary school, but he collapsed in the junior high school exam, and his test score turned out to be 0 points. The dense ant paintings on the test paper made people cry and laugh, and the child confidently said that he would become a chef in the future and think that he would learnEnglishNothing to use. Such a situation makes parents feel helpless, and it also reminds people of the saying "a horizontal measure, not an inch".
coincided with the third stage of junior high school, the daughter of another parentMathematicsHe only scored 36 points and ranked 10th, but the child was optimistic that everyone is a seed that will eventually sprout and grow. On the other hand, their children's test scores have always hovered between 30-40 points, and parents can only answer with a dry smile when faced with inquiries from relatives and friends, "play steadily" and sigh that "each family has a scripture that is difficult to read". Children also have their own persistence and ideas when their learning is sluggish, and perhaps we need to give more understanding and support.
Some parents' anxiety about their children's learning has also become prominent. Some parents spend thousands of yuan on tutoring for their children, but it still does not help, and their children's grades do not improve. Faced with this situation, parents may have to choose to go with the flow and accept their children's learning status, believing that as long as their children grow up healthy and happy, it is also a kind of happiness. Some parents are saddened by their children's low scores, and even rush to open up a "shortcut" for their children.
For scumbag parents, perhaps optimism and helplessness coexist. Faced with the child's pride, he thought that he had scored 97 points in the test, and the result was 9 points in ChineseMathematics7 points, parents can only laugh, perhaps behind the laughter, is their bitterness and helplessness. The gap between parents' expectations for their children's academics and reality is an insurmountable gap, and it is also a realitylifeA deep reflection.
Some parents are anxious about their children's scumbag status, and constantly strive to open up more possibilities for their children, enrolling in various classes, but they are still entangled and anxious. A parent magnifies his expectations again and again, hoping that his child can develop better, but in the face of his child's grades, it always makes people feel that they are not enough, and anxiety arises spontaneously. While parents are looking forward to a better future for their children, they may also need to learn to let go of the flow at the right time.
It is not an easy task for parents of scumbags to accept their children's learning status and grades. Parents may be anxious about their children's grades, but in the face of reality, there is nothing they can do. Some parents choose to laugh rightlifeI think that as long as the child can grow up happily, it is enough. Perhaps in the adjustment and acceptance of parents, children can also face the pressure of learning more easily and find their own learning style.
Every child is unique, and so are the challenges they face along their learning path. In the face of children who are in a state of scum, parents' anxieties and expectations are often intertwined, and they may envision a better path for their children's future, but they are often knocked down by reality. In the process of children's learning, perhaps what is more needed is understanding, support and acceptance, so that they can find their own learning style under appropriate pressure and grow up healthily. The companionship and care of parents is the most valuable wealth on the road to children's growth, let us work together to grow together and help children be happy and healthy!