Li Xiang posted Wang Shiling's ** on social platforms, which was also the first time she directly responded to the question of "raising a rich family's daughter". There's a quote in it that resonates with many moms: "Whenever someone says I'm going to take you away, I will never refute the fact that I was raised with refinement." The treasures I have bought with my life are not just the word 'exquisite'. ”
Among all the high-praise comments, many netizens who are mothers have the idea of "agreeing". Someone said, "If I have money, why can't I let my daughter enjoy better material treatment?"After all, it's all I can do. "Yes, isn't it?Others thought, "What mother doesn't want the best for her child?"”
This time, Li Xiang's remark of "I am willing to give everything for my daughter" made the public's focus return to the wealth and upbringing before "Wang Shiling". In fact, after Wang Shiling was pushed onto the screen, she was already a rich country. There are constant controversies, and the focus of this controversy is Li Xiang's "getting rich" to his daughter.
Perhaps in the worldview of the rich, this wealth is nothing, but in the eyes of the public, the degree of "wealth" far exceeds the expenses of an adult.
For example, Li Xiang admitted frankly in a program that Wang Shiling's monthly living expenses are at least 650,000 yuan, including tens of thousands of bags, tens of thousands of luxury clothes, tens of thousands of pieces of jewelry, etc., with a total amount of zero and zero sum exceeding some families. It's hard not to be shocked when it's a few years of expenses, and that's just a month's worth of living for a child of a few years old.
But in fact, there is nothing to criticize. First of all, Li Xiang and her husband Wang Yuelun can make money by themselves. In that case, why can't they give their daughters better material conditions than ordinary people?If the couple can make money, it is obviously unrealistic to let the only daughter spend the same amount of money as an ordinary family.
In addition, different circles have different opinions. Presumably, in the circles that Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun can come into contact with, the children inside have also received a similar degree of "enrichment". But in contrast, Li Xiang and Wang Yuelun spoke out about this fact. This seems too high-profile, and perhaps this is one of the reasons why it has been criticized.
At the same time, Li Xiang himself also likes to "buy, buy, buy", so after having his daughter Wang Shiling, his hobby of "buying, buying, buying" shifted to "buying, buying, buying" with his daughter. Maybe in the eyes of outsiders, Li Xiang is too low-key, or too extravagant, but if you look at it from another angle, isn't this the normal behavior of a mother after giving birth?
As for the statement that "Li Xiang is so rich that he can only raise disabled children", it may not be the case, because Li Xiang not only loves to dress up his daughter, but also pays more attention to the multi-faceted nature of his daughter. Develop.
For example, while other children of the same age are still watching TV and attending cram schools after school, Wang Shiling's extracurricular life is extremely rich. Li Xiang's schedule for her daughter includes yoga, piano, chess, calligraphy, and painting. Painting and other studies that cultivate a person's temperament and cultivation are all compulsory courses for Wang Shiling.
Obviously, in addition to giving Wang Shiling a luxurious material life, Li Xiang also attaches great importance to his daughter's personal cultivation.
And with the passage of time, Wang Shiling, the "little meat dumpling" who was ridiculed by everyone when she was a child, has gradually opened her heart, and the vague silhouette of the girl is becoming more and more like her mother Li Xiang. She is a beautiful woman who was "raised with money" since she was a child. "Temperament is also starting to come to the fore.
In fact, every parent wants to do their best to give their children a better environment to grow up. Undoubtedly, the same is true for Li Xiang and her husband Wang Yuelun. While it's true that some of their high-profile "affluent" expenses have caused considerable controversy, behind the wealth, the desire of parents to give their children a better material environment is real, isn't it?
The question of whether children should be raised wealthy" has always been controversial.
Some people will think "should". After all, if you have the ability, why not give your child a better one?But there are also those who think that "it shouldn't" because this kind of material satisfaction will only plunge children into luxury, which is not conducive to their development.
But I don't think there's anything wrong with "parents want to raise their children". It just depends on how the parents raise their children to be wealthy. Whether to blindly instill in children the shopping concept of "our family is not short of money, buy and buy", or whether to form positive values for children in the process of "enrichment", for example, Huang Yi told her when educating her daughter: "Buying things should be based on your own real needs, not because others have or want." "Be sure to compare before you buy. ”
Different parents will have different views on education, but as long as it is for the good of their children, what is wrong?
Li Xiang's concept of education is actually very simple. She regards Wang Shiling as her favorite baby and wants to do her best to give her the best. So I don't think that's wrong.
If there is anything wrong with her, it may be that her overly high-profile way of "enriching" children has caused dissatisfaction and concern among some parents who cannot "enrich" their children in this way, or it is easy to cause some parents to not know how to "enrich" their children. Able-bodied children will have "why can't my parents 'enrich' my thoughts like this, etc."
Of course, "whether the child is raised rich or poor" is the education style of every parent, and no one can influence it. As for whether it is better to raise children rich or poor, it may vary from person to person. Some kids are suitable for the wealthy. But some children may not be suitable.
However, no matter what kind of parenting style, I think every mother should have the same idea as Li Xiang, "My child is what I bought with my life, why don't I give her the best?".”