Go home for the Chinese New Year,When you see a vote of relatives, it is naturally indispensable to give the younger generation a New Year's money. But the New Year's money seems simple, but it is actually full of "landmines", and if you are not careful, you may hurt your feelings and offend people. Today, let me expose the "six minefields" for the New Year's money, and I hope you will never step on the thunder and turn this happy event into a "tragedy".
How much is appropriate? This question simply stumped all the elders. Give too much,was said to be "extravagant and wasteful"; Give too little, and I'm afraid that people won't look down on you and say you're "stingy". In fact, the amount of New Year's money does not mean anything, what matters is the heart. My advice is to choose a moderate amount according to your financial strength, and never force it.
Choosing red envelopes is also a science. Use old red packetsThe package is worn, which is not only unlucky, but also shows that you are not careful. On the other hand, if you have to use a first-class foreign red envelope, it is easy to be said. It's best to choose a new paper red envelope with a simple and generous appearance.
In the face of a large group of juniors,How to treat it fairly is also a headache. In fact, the meaning of New Year's money is not the size of the amount, but the blessing and care. My approach is to face children of different ages and choose different small gifts according to their preferences, without forcing absolute fairness of the amount.
Use crumpled old money as New Year's moneyIt's a minefield that almost everyone will tread. During the Chinese New Year, remember to go to the bank in advance to replace the new banknotes, because issuing new money means that everything starts again, which is in line with the mood of the New Year.
Without writing any blessings, he hurriedly stuffed the child with New Year's moneyThis is tantamount to crushing feelings. It is suggested that you can prepare some warm blessings in advance and choose the appropriate sentences according to different juniors. Let the New Year's money become a channel for you to pass on blessings and love.
I found that some elders like to stuff money into their children when their parents are not lookingBut this often doesn't work as intended. Parents will suspect that you have secrets with your child, and your child may not necessarily tell the truth. I suggest that it is better to give it to the child in front of the parents, so that it not only reflects the decency, but also avoids unnecessary suspicion.
AbsolutelyIn addition to these six minefields, there are many things to pay attention to when giving New Year's money. However, as long as you keep in mind that the meaning of New Year's money is to convey blessings and love, and choose a gift that is in line with your own reality, you can do this happy event smoothly. There's no need to force it, and there's no need to worry about it. Let's welcome this warm and beautiful New Year together!