Entrepreneurship is a kind of practice, which is inevitably accompanied by changes in original habits, patterns, and ideas. If people do not change, they cannot break through the original realm and enter a new world. Since it is change, you have to face adversity, accept uncomfortable people and things, become the person you didn't like, and develop habits that you never had. In this way, you can have everything that you didn't have before.
1. Don't be afraid of embarrassment.
From now on, you're going to embrace embarrassment.
People don't like to be embarrassed, confused, or even out of shape. Embarrassing things will not only make the person concerned ugly, but also embarrass those present. But the strange thing is that now, in the era of self-a**, people have become keen to satisfy their curiosity with various embarrassing scenes, so embarrassment has also become a selling point and marketing means.
In the final analysis, people love face, like to listen to praise and even praise, and are willing to let themselves have a glorious image. But that's where the weakness of human nature lies. When capital recognizes this weakness of human nature, it begins to create all kinds of norms and etiquette, such as how to talk, how to dress, etc., and any mistake will become the laughing stock of everyone. So once people have a bit of status, they become very afraid of embarrassment.
In fact, the feeling of embarrassment is completely unnecessary, especially when you have not achieved much yet. No one cares about your face. Just imagine, people who are better than you look down on you in the first place, why do you have to pretend to be polite? Someone who is not as good as you, even if he sees you making a fool of himself, what can he do to you? It's all about value and interests, embarrassment is the best thing to avoid, if it can't be avoided, you don't have to think about it. As for the fear of embarrassment and embarrassment, there is no need for it.
Not only that, in the modern era of self-a**, embarrassment is also a means to get out of the circle, and like celebrity scandals, it can bring you traffic. On the short ** platform, we can often see some funny jokes, the content of which is the freshness of the embarrassing moment. Most people like to base their happiness on the ugliness of others, so why don't you find an opportunity to make people pay more attention to you?
2. Don't be afraid of loneliness.
Once you've decided to start a business, you're going to have to deal with loneliness.
Entrepreneurs are lonely, and it is not alarmist that entrepreneurs want to block their families, relatives and friends. A person's loneliness usually comes from the incomprehension of those around them. When you are poor, you must have a set of perceptions that match your poverty, and at the same time, you have a group of relatives and friends who are as poor as yourself. If you are content with the status quo, then most of the people in your circle, except for a few people who want to get out of the circle, will get along well with you, your energy will nourish each other, and you will feel very comfortable.
But once you also want to get out of the circle and get rid of poverty, I'm sorry, you will be rejected by the vast majority of people around you, and you are destined to be lonely. If you think differently, you won't be recognized by your relatives and friends, they will just think you're crazy. Not only do they oppose you ideologically, they don't even want to have financial dealings with you. You can only face the hardships of starting a business alone. Only when you have a small achievement, some relatives and friends will approach you based on interests, but the innocent feeling of the past can no longer be found.
When your career development is smooth, you feel that your colleagues and partners are your bosom friends. However, once your career enters a bottleneck, or when you need to enter a new and unfamiliar field in the face of transformation, your original comrades-in-arms will also join forces against you. They don't trust you anymore, and when you need their support, all they think about is how to get out of the way and find another big tree. You can only think about how to break the game alone in the middle of the night.
If you're afraid of being alone, you're bound to feel lost. But if you like solitude and can enjoy solitude, then the loneliness in entrepreneurship will definitely make you extremely exciting.
3. Don't be afraid of being denied.
The more people deny you, you are on the right track.
There is a very philosophical saying that when everyone says hello, woe to you. No one in the world can win everyone's affirmation, and entrepreneurs will face even more criticism and denial. But the purpose of starting a business is not to let others say hello, but to make money, so that more people will pay for your decisions.
Brain Moujin's promotional video is almost unknown to everyone, not because it has a sense of beauty, on the contrary, this short film is very vulgar and disgusted by many people, but this does not affect the huge sales it has created. It is precisely because of the achievements created that this short film has become a well-known case in the industry. It's the same with people, when you don't have the strength, your politeness will be interpreted as licking the dog and hypocrisy; And when you have strength, your vulgarity will also be considered domineering and reckless.
But these are only unconscious, otherwise, the purpose is not to harm you, but to maintain his own poor values. In addition to these unintentional denials, those who really have a conflict of interest with you will try their best to slander you, attack you, smear you, and suppress you by any means. But then you have to understand that, whether unintentionally or intentionally, it is precisely because your presence poses a threat to them that they want to deny you. Being able to threaten others means that you are on the right track.
As the great man said, "Fighting with people is endless fun", so you have to enjoy being denied and let the meanness of the attacker fuel your fighting spirit. On the road to entrepreneurship, you need the support of many peers, and it is inevitable to face negation and attacks, you only need to lead like-minded people to overcome all negative energy. You don't have to be overly accommodating to your opponents, and defeating them is the best respect for them.