Men have extramarital affairs for "physiological needs", but what about women? The three women told the truth
When it comes to extramarital affairs, men often come to mind. Most people believe that men are looking for extramarital affairs in their marriages out of "biological need". However, the role of women is often overlooked. But in fact, women also have their own inner world and desires. In my recent interview, I met three women who were brave enough to speak out about what they went through in their extramarital affairs.
The first woman was Alice, a successful woman in the workplace.
She told me that after years of her marriage, she began to feel the flatness and lack of passion in her marriage. Her relationship with her husband became more and more like a friend than a lover. Alice didn't choose an affair because of "physical needs", but because she longed to regain that sense of passion and romance. She said to me, "The responsibilities and trivialities of married life made me lose myself gradually. I needed a way to rediscover myself and rekindle the fire within. ”
The second woman is Lily, a housewife. She told me that her marriage had been happy and stable.
However, after years of spending time with her husband, she began to feel tedious and depressed in her life. She met an interesting and charismatic man through socializing. Lily admits that she is not looking for the satisfaction of her "physical needs", but rather hopes to rediscover her worth and abilities in this affair. She said to me, "I need to prove to myself that I am still an attractive and capable woman to be pursued." ”
The third woman is Sarah, a young single woman. She told me that in her past few relationships, she was always let down and hurt by the other person.
This made her doubt and fear of love. However, when she meets a married man, she involuntarily falls into an affair. Sarah told me frankly that she chose this path because she couldn't trust and commit to a long-lasting relationship. She said to me, "I was afraid of being hurt, so I chose a safe choice, a man who wouldn't really be mine." ”
The stories of these three women may shock some, but deep down in their hearts, there is a longing and pursuit. They are not there to satisfy "physical needs", but to find themselves, to validate themselves, or to escape their fears.
It got me thinking, are their stories their own?
Each of us has a desire for happiness and fulfillment. The dullness and stress of marriage often make us lose ourselves and forget the passion and joy we once had. Perhaps we can learn from the courage and determination of these three women to explore our own heart's desires and find ways to rekindle our passion for life.
However, we should also make it clear that extramarital affairs are not the right way to solve problems. The stories of these three women do not encourage us to betray our partners, but remind us that we need to cherish our marital relationships even more.
If we find ourselves feeling lost and dissatisfied in our marriage, we should be brave enough to face it and actively seek a solution instead of running away.
Each of us deserves a fulfilling and happy life. Let us remember to cherish and preserve our marital relationship while pursuing our heart's desires. Only then can we truly find balance and fulfillment in our lives.
The choices in life are not always simple and clear, but we must be brave enough to face them. Let's use the stories of these three women as a lesson to remind ourselves to be authentic and candid, while also appreciating what we have.