Mr. Yang Jiang said: "True happiness is to nourish one's own heart, not to raise the eyes of others." ”
When we were young, we cared too much about the eyes of others, as if we were just living for others.
No matter what you do, you always have to think about what others will think, how they will see, and how they will say.
I know that I have been wronged by taking care of others in some things, but I still think about it from the perspective of others first.
In this way, it is customary to compromise and take care of the emotions of others, but treat yourself badly, and live without self.
Before I retired, I had always followed such a principle of living in the world.
I rarely take care of my own heart, and everything I do has to be seen by others.
Alas, the first half of my life in a daze!
After retiring, I gradually figured it out, and I also saw through the cold state of the world and the warmth and coldness of people.
I often hear such words circulating on the Internet: Except for your parents, no one in this world really feels sorry for you and really hopes for your well.
Careful consideration, it is not unreasonable.
It can't be said that there are no sincere friends, but how many people can really dig out their hearts and lungs, and go to the soup for you at the moment of life and death?
The other way around, you are the same, can you smear someone else's liver and brain? In the same way, everyone has something in common.
No one should say who is noble, no one should complain about who is selfish, and everyone has the weakness of human nature.
The point is that you see this clearly, and you don't have to be harsh on anyone.
Needless to say, for example, you went to borrow money these years, and you didn't have a deep friendship, do you dare to open your mouth? You open your mouth, can you borrow it?
Today's people are very realistic. Actually, if you think about it, it's not easy for everyone.
Who works hard to earn some money, whatever you borrow is easy, but it is difficult to pay back?
No one deserves anybody, and no one owes anyone. In this regard, it is necessary to understand long live.
In these years, what is lacking is not the icing on the cake, but the person who sends charcoal in the snow.
Needless to say, there are hardships to share and blessings to share.
When you're in trouble, can't help you, don't look at the jokes it's good.
But often, someone is willing to see your downfall, otherwise how can there be the word schadenfreude?
And when something good happens to you, it's just envy and it's okay. Often, many people are born with jealousy and even hatred.
These words may be a bit heart-wrenching, but in reality, there are many people.
Between people, on the surface, it seems to be a harmonious atmosphere, but the heart is separated by mountains and rivers, and it is out of reach.
When there is no conflict of interests, the world will always be peaceful, and once it is stained with copper odor, it will be-for-tat.
The relationship between people now is as sung in the play: "When you meet, you laugh, and don't think about it later." As soon as people leave, the tea will be cold, what is not thoughtful! ”
Retired people, who have lived most of their lives, should also be sober in the world: life is just their own, and no one will care about you very much.
So, you just live your life and take care of your inner feelings, instead of being emotionally swayed by others.
At the end of the day, your life is your own and doesn't have much to do with others, so know that you feel sorry for yourself.
Look down on everything, take it up, and put it down. There is no need to please and please others, only to be kind to yourself and know how to feel sorry for yourself.
To know how to feel sorry for yourself is to take care of your body, adjust your mentality, care about your inner feelings, take care of your mood, take care of your emotions, listen to your heart and do what you like.
Entertain yourself when no one is accompanied, and be quiet and comfortable when no one cares.
The rest of your life is short, cherish what you have, and live well in the moment. Don't think about the past, don't be afraid of the future, live happily!
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