A person's emotional experience and growth process are closely related, and for a boy, his first girlfriend is usually relatively young and immature, lacking experience and maturity.
At this time, boys tend to be full of longing and enthusiasm for relationships, but they are also prone to break up for various reasons. Therefore, if you want a more mature and stable relationship, the first term may not be the best choice.
Over time, boys will gradually grow and mature, and after experiencing some feelings, they will begin to understand how to handle relationships better and how to care for each other better.
At this time, their relationship will also be more stable and long-lasting. Therefore, if you want a more mature and stable relationship, you can choose a guy's second or third girlfriend.
Of course, this is not to say that only boys who have experienced many relationships are worth choosing. Some boys may begin to know how to cherish and care for each other after their first love, and such boys are also worth choosing.
The key is whether we can grow and progress from this relationship, and whether we can create a better future with each other.