It is said that education should start from the baby, many parents are full of expectations for their children at the moment of birth, and when the students enter primary school, parents also put all their energy and time on their children's academic performance, and try their best to improve their children's grades so that they can go further on the road of learning.In the current era of education, the phenomenon of education involution has become more and more serious, parents in order to let their children lose at the starting line, at the expense of high **, but also to buy a variety of teaching programs, or send their children to better quality school books, buy expensive school district housing, many children were born in an elite educational environment since childhood, which also increases the learning pressure of students.
Under the strict requirements of parents, students have to study in school during the day, and at night they have to enter a variety of cram schools and training classes, and the young age bears a greater burden, even if parents devote all their energy to their children, but some children are not naturally suitable for learning, not learning material, even if parents work hard, students can not be admitted to double first-class universities, and finally can only enter ordinary schools because of grades, and do ordinary work after graduation.
If the child does not mix well in the future, it will be difficult for the parents to raise their heads in front of other relatives, which also leads to the phenomenon of unfilial piety, and quietly happens that many children work hard at the bottom and work hard to make money, and the parents still can't see their efforts, thinking that this is a manifestation of the child's lack of interest.
"A new type of unfilial piety" has quietly emerged, children work hard at the bottom, but parents doVeryDisappointment
Xiao Li, a college student, graduated from a 211 school, originally planned to participate in the graduate school entrance examination after graduation, but due to family economic reasons, he was forced to give up the opportunity to study in graduate school and chose to enter the big city to work hard.
Xiao Li thinks that it is not easy for his parents to raise him, and he was successfully admitted to the 211 school, so he should send money to his parents, and he should also provide his parents with a better life, so Xiao Li will seriously transfer money to his family every month, but because of job transfers, Xiao Li's salary for three consecutive months is very low, and he can't even support himself, so Xiao Li began to stop sending money to his family.
Xiao Li's parents found that their children did not borrow money from them for two consecutive months and hurriedly dialed **, thinking that Xiao Li spent all the money in useless places, which was unfilial to them, which made Xiao Li feel very aggrieved, he had worked very hard, but he always did not get the understanding of his family, this new type of unfilial piety, but also made more and more children feel cold.
What are the causes of the new type of unfilial piety?
According to statistics, the total number of college graduates in 2023 has reached 11.89 million, but only 23.6% of students can be successfully employed after graduation, and today's job market is very fierce.
When recruiting talents, major employers will pay special attention to the applicant's academic qualifications are not up to standard, zero qualifications to enter the interview have not submitted resumes, and the link will be ruthlessly eliminated, even if students work hard to be admitted to graduate school and obtain higher academic qualifications, there are more people who are capable and excellent than you, it is difficult to survive in a big city, if there is no family help, a young person who wants to gain a foothold in a big city needs to bear the life pressure and economic pressure is very large.
However, in the eyes of parents, it is believed that this is a manifestation of the child's lack of effort, if the child works hard and studies hard, it is impossible to get to this point, but the current society is completely different from before, I hope that parents can give their children a little more care and understanding, don't just blame them excessively for those children who have no background, go to work to see the face of the leader, rent a house to see the face of the landlord, work is very hard, but can not save a lot of money.
If parents really care about their children, they should not blame them with those nasty words.
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