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Introduction: In today's society, parents have higher expectations and requirements for their children. Especially in families with relatively good economic conditions, they want their children to be able to get ahead of the starting line, get good grades, and be able to have a good job in the future. However, the reality is often not as good as it could be. Many children work hard at the bottom, but their efforts are often questioned by their parents, and even called "a new type of unfilial piety". This phenomenon has sparked widespread discussion and concern.
Under the expectation of parents, children face great learning pressure in the process of growing up. Whether it's elementary, middle, or high school, they need to do well academically. Especially in China, parents often pin all their hopes on their children's studies, hoping that they will be able to enter prestigious schools and obtain good academic qualifications.
However, for most families, the economic situation is not very advantageous. Faced with huge educational pressures and high costs, they may not be able to provide high-quality educational resources compared to families with better financial means. This leads to greater difficulties for children in a competitive educational environment.
Expansion: In fact, the growth process of children is not only a competition for academic performance, but also a process of cultivating comprehensive quality. Parents' expectations should be more focused on the overall development of their children, not just on academic excellence. Attention should also be paid to developing children's independent thinking and practical skills, so that they can cope with different challenges and difficulties. In addition, families should give their children more emotional support and encouragement, and give them timely help and understanding when they encounter difficulties. Only in this way can children grow up more confidently and healthily.
In the face of brutal competition and pressure, children from low-income families continue to work hard to change their destiny. Through unremitting efforts, they have found a job in the lower classes, and although the salary is not high, they still work hard and want to change the quality of life.
However, parents are disappointed in their children's efforts. They often think that their children have not fulfilled their filial responsibilities and have not brought more financial support to the family through their own efforts. This phenomenon, known as the "new type of unfilial piety", has led to contradictions and conflicts within the family.
Expansion: Parents' expectations are understandable and understandable, but they also need to understand and respect their children's choices and efforts. In a competitive society, everyone should pursue their dreams and happiness instead of giving up their efforts and pursuits in order to meet the expectations of others. Parents should encourage their children, give them more support and understanding, and let them feel the warmth and support of the family in the process of hard work.
Life is not easy for young people who choose to stay and work in big cities. They may have to deal with rent pressures, high prices, and even work-life balance.
Expanding: Competitive pressures and the high cost of living in big cities are overwhelming for many young people. They spend a lot of time and energy on renting, living expenses, and even have to fight against unforeseen emergencies. However, their efforts and struggles have not been respected and recognized accordingly, but have been questioned and challenged. The development of young people takes time and opportunity, and families should understand and support their choices to give them the opportunity to pursue a better life.
Bottom line: In this fast-paced society, relationships between families and individuals are becoming increasingly strained. Parents often neglect their children's efforts and dedication while expecting their children to achieve good grades and bring financial support to the family. This new type of unfilial piety is particularly prominent among the children of the lower classes, leading to contradictions and conflicts within the family. On this issue, I believe that parents should be more understanding and respectful of their children's choices and efforts, give them more support and encouragement, and give them the opportunity to pursue their own happiness and dreams. At the same time, children should also communicate more with their parents, actively express their ideas and difficulties, and let the family become a warm harbor for them. Family harmony and happiness can only be achieved on the basis of mutual understanding and support.
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