Author |Sister Comb.
Since ancient times, the Chinese New Year is to usher in the send-off, eat, drink and have fun, and no one is exempt from vulgarity. Especially gift-giving is an indispensable pass, if you don't give it, I don't give it, this year will be meaningless. So much so that even the advertising words are not shy about it, and this year's festival does not accept gifts, and only brain platinum is accepted for gifts. It must be admitted that there is no love for no reason, and gifts are all exquisite and said, and it is impossible to give this to that for no reason. There is a special way to give gifts, and there are also special things to receive gifts, who can receive gifts, who can not receive gifts, and how many times to receive, all need to be judged at your discretion. In fact, not only Chinese give gifts during festivals, but foreigners also give gifts during holidays, which is the most basic form of socialization. Recently, Dong Yuhui issued a solemn statement in the live broadcast room on the issue of gift-giving, he said that at the end of the year, many businessmen wanted to send gifts to themselves and the team out of gratitude, which was resolutely refused, and emphasized that businessmen should spend their minds on products, rather than seeking cooperation opportunities through gifts. For those who insist on giving gifts, Dong Yuhui said that once he knows, he will never cooperate. Many people appreciate this, and it also shows a problem, Dong Yuhui has become bigger, so big that no one can believe it, and he has no friends. **Shang gave a gift to Dong Yuhui's team to express his gratitude, doesn't Dong Yuhui's team need to also express his gratitude to **Shang? Normal business partnership, there is nothing wrong with sending meaningful gifts during the New Year's holidays, and the two sides should be an equal cooperative relationship, rather than a subordinate relationship between the anchor and the businessman. Due to Dong Yuhui's fame and the traffic occupied by the entire team, what should have been a normal cooperative relationship between them and the best businessmen has become a relationship of mutual distrust, and the stability of this business model is not optimistic. Pu Songling wrote in "Strange Tales from Liao Zhai": "Since ancient times, officials do not send gifts. "The reason why we don't hit the giver is because the nature of gift-giving and bribery is not the same, and the gift is an expression of an attitude, and the acceptance is a respectful vote, if you don't want to accept the gift and refuse, the refusal is also a tactful attitude. If the six relatives don't recognize it, the oil and salt don't enter, and they refuse to give gifts in a simple and rude way, the character of this kind of person also needs to be put a big question mark. Zeng Guofan is a generation of famous ministers, who has achieved unprecedented achievements, and he has his own set of principles for dealing with the unspoken rules of officialdom. Zeng Guofan never objected to giving gifts, but no matter how many good things he had, he only picked a few worthless ones to keep, so that the people below had face on their faces and their hearts were very warm. For example, Rong Hong was deeply favored by Zeng Guofan, and when he came to visit Zeng's house, Zeng Guofan wrote a letter to his son, making it clear that the gift should not exceed 20 gold, and he would not take any more than that. But when it was Zeng Guopan's turn to go to the capital to deal with the relationship, the silver ticket was 20,000 taels, which was a work need, and if the relationship above was not handled, the following things could not be done, which was the difference between private interests and public interests. Now, when it comes to the New Year's holidays, all kinds of inspection teams and secret visit groups are investigating the problem of giving gifts everywhere, ranging from local specialties to precious tobacco and alcohol. This cat-and-mouse game does have a deterrent effect, but I'm afraid it's not going to solve anything. The chain of interests is an extension of the chain of power, and it is useless to deplete resources to screen an individual like a virus. If the center of gravity of power shifts downward, the subjects of gift-giving and receiving will also naturally shift. Finally, let's talk about Messi, who has angered many people in the past few days, and is looking forward to him becoming a New Year's gift, but I didn't expect to spend unjust money and make trouble, from Xiao Tiantian to Mrs. Niu. 
Now Messi and the Miami team behind him are being criticized everywhere, which shows that the Chinese people are very adoring, looking forward to and obsessed with him, and the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, perhaps this is the truth. If Messi or Miami break the contract, we are a society governed by the rule of law, can we sue them in court? If they didn't break the contract, and we kept crusading and cursing for the New Year, then who was in a bad mood in the end? 
The strange thing is that although Messi played in Japan, Japanese fans posted ** complaints, the audience seats were empty, which made people afraid, why did the Japanese not care about Messi? It is immoral to base one's pain on others, and it is very fragile to place one's happiness on others. There is no breach of contract without a contract, otherwise it is just wishful thinking.