Bachelor's degree with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, and the criteria for choosing a mate for girls on the assembly line are hotly discussed
Graduated from college, with a monthly income of 20,000 yuan, the mate selection criteria of female workers on the assembly line, netizens: Look at yourself yourself.
The leper ** wants to eat swan meat is a metaphor for people who lack self-knowledge and blindly pursue unrealistic goals. People often think highly of themselves, especially the overly egotistical enterprising.
Even if you know that you are mediocre, you still fantasize about having a good lover, which means that you are overconfident. However, this view is not limited to male students, as a college graduate shares his experience here.
University diploma, monthly income of 20,000, the average girl has high requirements for the other half, ancient and modern, the door to this statement, now it complements each other. The essence of this is to emphasize that there is no huge gap between the two.
When two people are significantly different in many ways, it is very difficult to maintain long-term charm. Although college students now have a lot of freedom in choosing a mate, there are still some standards and bottom lines on this issue.
There was a boy who, after graduating from technical school, went to work as an ordinary worker in a factory. Although he started relatively late, due to his outstanding work, he was soon promoted to the position of team leader, and his salary was as high as more than 5,000 yuan a month, which is already a good treatment for a small county.
He met a girl on the assembly line, and after a period of time together, they met. The boy wanted to confess, but he found it difficult to speak, so he could only keep laughing. However, his reaction was surprising.
Bachelor's degree, monthly salary of 20,000, height of 175 or above, and appearance above average. The girl was surprised by a list of strict mate selection conditions. When she thought of her situation, it seemed that there was only a difference in height, and there was no hope at all, and she couldn't help but feel her heart pound.
You also don't look at yourself to see if you're a college student. But surprisingly, many people agree: look at yourself in the mirror. If you measure a person by a strict standard, he will measure you by a standard.
In this age of higher education, it is common for men to get a university diploma, and it is not difficult to grow to a height of 175 cm. But to do this, the key is to have a monthly salary of more than 20,000 yuan, and you have to be good-looking, which is a bit difficult for a strong man.
The key is that this girl herself does not have such good conditions, she has just graduated, and she only has 3,000 yuan a month. Although men tend to be more likely to have downward mobility when looking for a lover, this phenomenon can also have some effects.
She believes that a man with a bachelor's degree should at least have a college diploma and then find a clerical job. If a man has a good salary and good looks, he can upgrade a better girl.
You wonder if she would have made such a decision because of her own strength. However, there are obvious signs of being tampered with from the **, so the problem is still unsolvable.
But in fact, people are very realistic, and if they are good-looking, they may not be able to get the favor of good men. Especially those highly educated graduate students, they will pay more attention to a person's educational background, depth of thought, and family background.
Even if a girl has beautiful looks, if her communication methods and thinking methods are not informative, she will not be able to win a man with a college degree.
Many netizens don't understand why some people with a low level of education would pay attention to another person's academic qualifications. Most people would rather find someone who is similar to them, and only a few graduates of technical schools can find a bachelor's degree.
In practice, however, there are mixed gender groups. They themselves are very poor in their studies, so why should they care about the education level of others? This may be because of two facts.
First of all, the level of education is a potential employment opportunity. While a bachelor's degree doesn't mean a good job, it's much more likely than for those with a low degree of education. It's good for women.
Second, those with lower education and lower incomes may be secretly jealous of other people's lives. In the minds of parents, the starting point of their children is very important, and they realize that they are not good at reading, so they are eager to find a well-educated person to take on the responsibility of educating the next generation.
In modern education, parents not only pay great attention to their children's homework, but also pay great attention to their professionalism and patriotism. When they choose a mate, they often consider finding someone who is better than themselves, so that the child can have a greater chance of changing his fate.
What are your thoughts on this?