The Spring Festival is coming soon, visiting relatives and friends must be indispensable, whether it is the second year of junior high school to go back to their parents' home, or to go to relatives, it must be indispensable to give gifts, so it also shows our sincerity, and the host family will also be very happy to entertain.
And as a state of etiquette, gift-giving is not just to buy a few boxes of things on it, but there are a lot of exquisite, the older generation often tells us, to send to "three to four do not send", only to follow the tradition of the older generation, in order to have a stable and happy year.
Chinese New Year,It was originally happy and festive, and everywhere was a joyful seven, and we should pay attention to a festive atmosphere when giving gifts.
When choosing the outer packaging, you should choose the products with bright colors and festive packaging, so that relatives and friends are very happy to see it, and they will secretly praise you for doing things.
Some people give giftsPay attention to what you like, no matter whether others can use it or not, for example, if you go to a friend's house as a guest, obviously your friend doesn't drink, you go and move a case of wine; It's so cold, but you take a box of apples; Obviously your friend is not interested in tea, but you take a box of good tea.
seems to have face, but it is actually embarrassing othersIt is better to send some food, drink, milk, biscuits, boiled eggs, etc., so that not only relatives can eat themselves, but also take them with them when they go to other people's homes.
During the New Year, you will have a good fortune, and give good gifts to make relatives happier, such as sending pastries, which means stepping up, sending wine, meaning longevity, sending ham sausages, meaning meat every year, etc.
If you don't know how to give gifts, the things you send are not right, and your relatives will not only talk about you in private, but also don't want to see you.
I had a relative who gave gifts before, but he wouldn't give them at all, but he gave pears, watermelons, and a carton of Wahaha milk. Who eats watermelon and pears this winter! And Wahaha milk, isn't this what children drink?
We Chinese pay attention to good things in pairs, in addition to "four", it is okay to send two boxes of gifts and six boxes, which is also in line with our gift-giving requirements.
If you send three or five boxes, your relatives will definitely think that you are rude, will not give gifts, and will not treat you very well.
If you give a gift,Be sure not to send bulk, because this is the New Year, unlike usual, sending bulk gives people the feeling that the picture is cheap, does not pay attention to relatives, and it does not look good, and some also carry labels, which is even more inappropriate, giving people a feeling of being very impolite.
It is more sincere to buy boxes of things, which is also what we summarized on gift-giving.
Red represents festivity, meaning good luck, but also feels red, very comfortable to look at, and is also our Chinese's favorite color.
And white is generally used for funerals, it is a very unlucky color, this must not be used for gifts, so it seems to be a funeral, especially the elderly, the face will definitely be ugly.
As the saying goes: "Thousands of miles to send goose feathers, gifts are light and affectionate", when we give gifts, we must not choose some expensive gifts for the sake of face.
The more expensive you think things are, the more they can show your sincerity, but otherwise, people may not necessarily know that your things are expensive, and they may even think that you are taking counterfeit goods.
AbsolutelyIf you want to go to your father-in-law's house to visit relatives, things must not be too cheap, it is best to buy thousands of wine, and the quality of the things should be high, don't take some instant noodles, milk tea or something, take a few boxes for a long time, take a few good cigarettes, and then send a box of apples, fruits, chicken legs, braised eggs, ham sausages or something, what is expensive, you just buy what is right.
It's time to go to relatives soon, and when you buy something, you must consider going to the host home of the gift is identity and hobby, don't just rely on feelings, what you buy may not be what people like.
Finally, what other tips do you have for gifting? Feel free to comment below!