If it were me, I wouldn't be able to live a day like this. Actor Zhang Kaili said. But she changed her tone and said that if she didn't put herself in her shoes, she couldn't understand it at all.
There are many people who ridicule Wu Huifen on the Internet, but I don't think there are many people who can do better than her.
Using feminism to ridicule her, I can still understand that the satirists are a group of positive feminists. In the eyes of some feminists, Mr. Wu is so educated, intelligent, and career-oriented, and his background should be good, why should he be tied to a scumbag? These people are not to be laughed at. Their purpose is not sarcasm, butThere are more elements of hatred for outstanding women like Mr. Wu, and there are more elements of mourning their misfortune and anger.
You think Wu Huifen is ridiculous, but in fact there are more people than her ridiculous.
It's ridiculous that some people who sarcastically mock her are evaluated out of the feudal idea of three from four virtues, I don't know whether it is the longevity of the Qing Dynasty who can type or whose ancestral tomb of the longevity board is not pressed.
A woman named Jian Fang accused Teacher Wu of not being virtuous enough. There is nothing wrong with being virtuous in itself, but being virtuous also has to look at who you are right with. The other party has derailed, built a large-scale greening project on his head, and has to repay his grievances and hard work? What are you kidding? There is also a female professor who also published an article on the online platform, accusing Teacher Wu of not doing a good enough job with Gao Yuliang.
I'm very curious: Teacher Wu sent a board to Gao Yuliang to get up, so he almost knelt. Could it be that Gao Xiaofeng did better? Does Gao Xiaofeng walk on his knees in front of Gao Yuliang except in bed?
The most ridiculous thing is that the two people who accuse Teacher Wu are not women from the family compound in the mountain village who are influenced by the idea of three obedience and four virtues, one is a female boss and the other is a female professor. They are all rich and educated women, and they are nothing more than this in thought.
In modern times, those grandmother-level performance artists, wives of historical celebrities, and female cultural celebrities are all outstanding among womenReal high-quality women, several times better than Mr. Wu, are they women who can't live without men? But do you look at the husbands who hurt them, are they divorced? None of them.
As for accusing Mr. Wu of not being virtuous enough, it is not convincing. The accusers are all literate women, and I ask: Is Mr. Sun and Lu Muzhen divorced because the latter was not virtuous? Isn't Yu Fengzhi virtuous enough? Zhang Dagongzi has more than one woman, Miss Zhao Si. Isn't Liu Fengjiao virtuous enough? Peking Opera master Zhou Xinfang still took the pregnant Gong Lilin to force Liu Fengjiao to divorce.
Someone said: Zhang Kaili is not as young and beautiful as Hu Jing. This seems convincing, but it doesn't make much sense.
Are Grace Carey, Princess Charlene, Monica Bellucci, Vivien Leigh not pretty enough? Their husbands are also very romantic. There are also actresses in the entertainment industry and show business who are unhappy in their marriages, don't they have eighteen-line tricks and beautiful night girls?
Some people also accuse Mr. Wu of not being as pure as Gao Xiaofeng's love. I'm curious where Gao Xiaofeng is? Seducing Gao Yuliang is also to escape from the dilemma of being ** at any time, right? Teacher Wu is not pure enough, so is Gao Yuliang pure to Teacher Wu? Presumably, I also took a fancy to Mr. Wu's background and connections.
Are women who are not respected and loved by their husbands because they are not in love enough? Women like Li Wanhua and Zhuang Yueming who marry Phoenix men are all love brains, what is the good ending?
Therefore, outstanding looks can't tie a man, kindness and virtue can't impress a man, and the love brain can't get a happy ending. So what do you say about the women? Live for yourself.
Teacher Wu just faced the man's cheating, at least Gao Yuliang didn't beat her, and also gave her and the people around her some benefits. Many women are facing a man who is cheating, domestic violence, and useless, and they are also not divorced and are making do with their lives. I've seen fifty steps laughing at a hundred steps, and this time I saw one laughing at fifty steps at a hundred paces.
As a woman with status, Ms. Wu needs to take care of face. Are those ordinary women also because of the care of face? Whether it is in the book or in the play, Gao Yuliang was taken down, and after the truth was revealed, some people around him laughed at Teacher Wu. Although Gu Face is sad, it is better than a woman who doesn't care about anything and makes do with it.
The Song sisters are Bai Fumei, who are excellent in all aspects, and Lu Muzhen and Mao Fumei can only admit it, and there is no shame in spreading it. In addition to being young and beautiful, Gao Xiaofeng gave birth to an incense lamp in the eyes of Chaoshan people, and he cannot be compared with Teacher Wu in all aspects. Mr. Wu was unwilling in his heart. In "Lady Chatterley's Lover", Connie's husband does not divorce alive or dead, but he is unwilling to admit that he lost to an "inferior person" in his eyes.
Some people are very curious: Gao Yuliang did such a disgusting thing, why did Wu Huifen cover him and even "help him" with him? Nothing but face and profit?
Women like Wu Huifen are actually uncommon: when their husbands have an accident, they don't choose to leave or stab them in the back, but help their husbands mend holes. What's more, if the husband has broken the law, they will find the best and strongest team of lawyers to exonerate the husband. In fact, their husbands are not good to them, and their kind of excellent women don't need to rely on their husbands to survive.
A big reason is that they are not only husbands, but most importantly they are also the fathers of their children, and if they have a criminal record and stains in the future, it will not do the children any good. Aida Mussolini was betrayed by her husband Ziano more than once, and Ziano's affair history was known throughout European high society, but Ziano**, she still tried her best to save her husband. "Golden Voice" Whitney Houston has to repeatedly settle lawsuits for her ex-husband regardless of face.
Qi Tongwei likes another female version of Qi Tongwei, and Gao Yuliang doesn't like another female version of Gao Yuliang. Similarly, the audience likes the male version of Wu Huifen, but they don't like the female version of Gao Yuliang. Strictly speaking, Mr. Wu and Gao Yuliang are the same person, why is there such a phenomenon? Do you still need to ask? It's because of gender bias, of course.
According to our history and culture, women must tolerate men unconditionally and without a bottom line. Even push articles appear on the Internet from time to time to say that after the original partner in the old era was abandoned, he had no complaints, no regrets, no desires, and was a virtuous and bottomless wronged boss, and he would praise and praise such behavior. Teacher Wu is somewhat of the opposite, since her husband has no feelings for herself, she will ask for the surplus value of men to compensate herself.
It's right to think about it, if you want to be emotional, if you want to have no character, if you want to be good or not, what are people looking for you? Is there a male and a female like a mandarin duck to make up a complete variety?
The man is not as sincere and dedicated as the male protagonist of the romance drama, so why should the woman be a love brain like the heroine of the romance drama?
Some viewers think that Gao Yuliang just dislikes Mr. Wu for being old, and I used to think so, but in my opinionThis is not at all the process of a woman going from the bright moonlight in front of the window to the sticky rice on the soles of her feet.
In my opinion, Gao Yuliang's contempt for Mr. Wu is not only for his aging face, but also for his heart and personality.
When Mr. Wu asked Gao Yuliang to give the green light to relatives and friends, Gao Yuliang's expression was extremely disdainful. But in fact, what qualifications does he have to look down on Teacher Wu? Isn't he also a man who betrays his personality, lusts for power, and is cronyistic? It's really boring to engage in such double standards.
It is normal for Mr. Wu to make people feel "sad for their misfortune and angry with them". Since you like the sense of honor and decency that power brings you, why don't you fight for it yourself, but count on a man's handout? Mr. Wu and Liang Lu are best friends, relying on such a network, they do not pursue step by step, but let their husband go step by step. Teacher Wu is also a tall person, no worse than Gao Yuliang. What you get by yourself is more reliable than what your husband gives alms。is like what Hu Jing, the actor of the Gao sisters, said: Don't expect someone to support you for a lifetime.
A woman like Mr. Wu can also break out of her own world with her own ability, but she puts her fate in the hands of a man like a woman at the bottom. made the audience feel both depressed and regretful.
Lu Yi's evaluation of Mr. Wu and Ouyang Jing is too simple and rude, but it does reflect the different practices and views of women in different eras on marriage. Teacher Wu is just to keep face and the child to endure and suppress, Lu Yi, a new generation of women, has a habit of emotional cleanliness, not to mention cheating, even the single clean character in ** can't accept it. The younger generation of "Wu Huifen" no longer forbears, and many even choose to report with their real names.
Mr. Wu chose to endure and suppress the woman who came to make do with it, and was ridiculed for her vanity, and in the old drama in the past, an original partner ran to the city hall to make a fuss and was said to be strong and spicy. It seems that everything a woman does is wrong. What about not getting married? If you don't get married, some people will say that you are selfish.
I have to admit that the TV series is more successful than the ** adaptation, and the characters seem to be a lot more humane. At the end, Liang Lu asked Wu Huifen: "Don't you wait for Lao Gao's news anymore?" Wu Huifen replied, "There is no meaning, waiting or not waiting will not change anything." ”
This doesn't seem like a problem, right? But the audience was not happy, saying that Mr. Wu had no feelings.
Usually men are ridiculed by the crowd for being kind to women, "boiling sheep" and "licking dogs" or something, and the ex-wife is ruthless if she doesn't want to wait for the news of the scumbag's ex-husband? Because everyone is accustomed to women's forbearance and "repaying grievances with virtue", don't women such as Sheng Peiyu, Zhu Meifu, and Tian Hua all repay their husbands with virtue? So the big guys think that contemporary women should be like this.
Actually, it doesn't make any sense at all. Gao Yuliang has no problem, he retired smoothly, he must be reunited with his wife and children in Hong Kong, it doesn't matter to him whether Wu Huifen's mother and daughter are dead or alive, and he doesn't care; If there is a problem and he is imprisoned, no one else can save him.
You can't control other people's thoughts and opinions, so you can only be yourself and let others say it. After all, thinking about what others think of you every day is too tiring to live. It's impossible to get everyone to understand you and sympathize with you.
As the old saying goes: the more you think about it, the more angry you get, and the more you think about it, the more you lose when you take a step back. When the party at fault is a man, most people are persuaded and not discouraged. But life is uncomfortable, and the parties have the most right to speak. Do you say that Mr. Wu likes this kind of life? Of course not. If a man doesn't accept his wife cuckolding him, can a woman accept her husband's cheating?
If Mr. Wu was a pure utilitarian, it is estimated that he would not have lived such a miserable life. After all, the face is also enough, and there are all kinds of benefits, and Lao Gao also promised to give her everything he has in the mainland (of course, if it is not given, I don't know, maybe it will be confiscated before it is given), so why do you still grit your teeth hysterically from time to time when you return home?
Mr. Wu is not without feelings, but this relationship is exchanged for ruthless betrayal. The hard work he poured into was taken away by others.
Some people say that Mr. Wu is a typical example of "both want and want", but in fact, this evaluation is unfair, this man and this family originally belonged to her. If there are people who believe that "the third person who is not loved is the third party", then I have nothing to say and am powerless to complain.
I'm just curious, why didn't so many of the Divine Sect and the Big Po Party not appear when commenting on Teacher Wu? Instead, they fell to the side of the mistress and the scumbag one by one. Where did the people who lined up for the third in line go this time?
The most ridiculous thing is that it was Gao Yuliang's voluntary to climb into Gao Xiaofeng's bed and board Zhao Jiaban's thief ship. But many people blamed Mr. Wu for this incident. Obviously, in this play, Mr. Wu repeatedly suggested that his ex-husband and the Zhao family should be cut, and even said that he did not approve of his ex-husband approving the Zhao family's food city. Why did Lao Gao later have an accident, and the audience blamed Mr. Wu for leading him to a career?
See? This is the "wonderful use" of marrying a wife: if you have achievements, it is the man's own. If there are mistakes and mistakes, it is the wife who leads the way crookedly. It's ridiculous.
The young painter Zhao Xiaoli's painting ** has such a copy: The rose began to wither from the moment it was picked.
There is a sentence in the opening song of the TV series "Operation Without Borders": It was the encounter at that moment that was destined to end a lifetime.
Since the day Mr. Wu married Gao Yuliang, a tragic life has been doomed. Because Gao Yuliang never loved her. In Liang Lu's words, without their relationship, Old Secretary Liang would not have noticed him. Teacher Zhang Kaili also said, "Gao Yuliang gave all his love to Gao Xiaofeng".
Teacher Wu may not be too miserable to marry anyone, but marrying Gao Yuliang alone is a tragedy. Marry a straight man like Li Dakang, who has no human feelings, anyway, Lao Li is ruthless and ruthless to everyone, and he can't be angry if he treats anyone differently. Gao Yuliang is worthy of anyone, but only Wu Huifen is sorry. Even Gao Yuliang finally admitted that "I'm only sorry for you". It is precisely because of this that Mr. Wu is even more sad: What am I sorry for you? This is not an uncommon thing, there are few men in history who do not hurt their original partners. The original match is also considered one of the riskiest identities in history.
Teacher Wu didn't get love, she didn't get respect, and she didn't even have the pity of outsiders for her. After reading the evaluation of her on the Internet, I still think it's better not to get married, if you become such an abandoned woman after getting married, the world will only ridicule you and will not sympathize with you.
I hope that every wife will be treated gently.