The so called fate is stirred !

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-01

January 11, 2024, Jiaozuo Evening News, B07 edition.

Walk into the world of guqin and inherit the civilization of ritual music

On January 13th, you are invited to participate in the "Ice Moon Collection" Guqin Public Welfare Lecture

At about 15 o'clock on January 13thA unique guqin public welfare class will be held in the city library, and members of the "Love Tree" Single Club of Jiaozuo ** Club are welcome to actively participate. The event will be held at1st floor of the Municipal Library.

The event was hosted by the Municipal Library and co-organized by the Songquan Guqin Museum. According to Xu Chunwei, the person in charge of the Songquan Guqin Museum, he hopes to lead the audience to the source of traditional culture and appreciate the peace and integrity of the guqin.

Guqin, also known as the seven-stringed piano, has a history of more than 3,000 years, is an ancient and representative plucked string instrument in China, and is listed as the first of the "four arts" of qin, chess, calligraphy and painting. The materials of the guqin are exquisite, the workmanship is exquisite, and the timbre of different styles of guqin is different, or deep and rich, or elegant and ethereal. In 2003, the art of Chinese guqin was included in the second batch of "Masterpieces of the Oral and Intangible Heritage of Humanity" by UNESCO, and in 2006, it was included in the first batch of national intangible cultural heritage list.

Xu Chunwei, the teacher who explained the guqin to the audience, was born in 1960, loved traditional culture since childhood, and liked classical poetry.

Mountains and rivers have bosom friends. In this public welfare class, Xu Chunwei hopes that the members of the Love Tree Single Club can listen to the guqin and find a soulmate in life.

Jiaozuo**Quan**Reporter Zhao Gailing reports.

Sweet talk

The so-called fate is "stirred"!

Zhao Gailing. The author has interviewed the members of the "Love Tree" Single Club of Jiaozuo ** Club many times, and many members generally feel too introverted and too shy, as if finding a partner is a shady thing, unwilling to look for it generously, unwilling to take the initiative to find it, many people feel that fate is waiting for it. Last Saturday, when I had nothing to do at home, I opened the "China Women's Daily" and saw an article in which a psychologist said that the so-called fate is not waiting, but "blending".

The article said that those who are emotionally lucky and easily meet the person they like and have a marriage actually have a common personality and persistence.

First of all, they prefer to interact with people, that is, they are social, curious about people, like to make new friends, and have an outgoing personality. They always go to places with a lot of people, and the probability of meeting the right person naturally increases greatly.

In addition, people with good emotional luck also have an open attitude towards life, do not have a preconceived position on anything, remain flexible, and are willing to try different things.

If you think about it, most of the opportunities in life happen unintentionally. If a person accidentally steps on a stranger in an elevator, he may develop a romantic ......

At the end of the article, I said that opportunities are actually everywhere and all the time, and everyone and everything you and I meet every day may be the beginning of fate. The point is that when the opportunity comes, a person has an open mind and is willing to try all kinds of possibilities in order to turn the opportunity into a real fate.

Therefore, if you want to have a miracle from the sky, you have to be attentive, affectionate, hard, take the initiative, open your heart, and seize the opportunity, so that you are not far from getting off the list.

Member interviews

"Post-70s" Gina: Life is endless, love is supreme

Born in 1974, she is sincere and honest that she has been through two marriages, one due to widowhood and the other due to divorce, but she still believes in love. She said: "Life is endless, love comes first. She is Gina, a member of the "Love Tree" Singles Club of Jiaozuo ** Society.

Gina is 163 meters, weighs 52 kilograms, and has a gentle temperament, but she says that she has a soft and rigid personality.

As Sanmao said: "I don't seek profundity, only simplicity." The same goes for Gina, who likes people who are straight and doesn't like to be around people who are "brain-burning". She has a wide range of hobbies, likes to be quiet and alone, likes to travel, likes sports, likes to cook, likes to cook, and also likes to watch others eat their own food. With so many hobbies, she never felt lonely, and she could live well alone. "Love and marriage are not dependence, but two independent people accompany each other. Gina said.

Gina lived with her family in Guangzhou for a long time. A few years ago, my father wanted to return to his roots, and the whole family returned to Wuzhi County, and the experience in the flower city of Guangzhou made Gina learn to cook Cantonese cuisine. Although the dishes she made did not reach the realm of clear, fresh, tender, smooth, refreshing, fragrant and crispy, her friends said that the Cantonese food she made was very authentic and delicious.

Gina's daughter is married, and Gina's view of marriage is: partner first, parents second, and children third. "In my heart, my future partner is going to accompany me to old age, he is the first, I hope that in the future the family will be less noisy and more harmonious. Gina said.

What are Gina's requirements for choosing a mate? There are eyes, love cleanliness, love sports. Have your own car and house (Jiaozuo City or Wuzhi County are acceptable), and have a stable income. Height 1More than 70 meters, "post-70s" can be, divorced, widowed with a child. Gina said that except for Jiaozuo City and Wuzhi County, other areas will not be considered for the time being.

Gina said that she is sincerely looking for a partner, do not disturb if she is not sincere, and add her WeChat if appropriate.

Jiaozuo**Quan**Reporter Zhao Gailing reports.

A confession of love

Hebei Zhang Mu wanted to say to Jiaozuo, she said-

I will give you a copy of "One Hundred Years of Solitude", and learn to be self-consistent in life

Today, the guest of Jiaozuo ** Society's "Love Tree" is Zhang Mu, a reader from Hebei, who wants to say to his friend Luo Luo: "I will give you a copy of "One Hundred Years of Solitude", and learn to be self-consistent in life. ”

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Here's what Zhang Mu wants to say to Luo Luo:

Luo Luo, more than ten years ago, we met, I was studying at a university of political science and law in Jiangnan for graduate school, and you joined the work early, although there is a big difference in our academic qualifications, but we have a good understanding of many issues, I am quite admiring your self-learning spirit.

For more than ten years, we have lived in different cities, and we have rarely been in touch, but last year, you suddenly contacted me and told me about the bitterness and misfortune of life.

Thank you for believing in me.

You talk about the ups and downs you have encountered emotionally, you talk about the pressure of being single, and you talk about the negative people you have encountered. I have limited help for you. Although you are middle-aged, I call you a "middle-aged girl". Being simple is your advantage, but your disadvantage is that you are not gentle enough, like a "female man", and you are a little less tender.

once asked you to read Lu Yao's "Life" to see how Qiaozhen handled her relationship with Gao Jialin, and how the "abandoned" Qiaozhen did it, times are changing, but some virtues will never be outdated.

I think that no matter how far the relationship goes, no matter who is right and who is wrong, it is recommended that you learn from Qiaozhen, do not resent each other, let go of each other, and let go of yourself.

As for the loneliness of being single, let alone being single, even people like me who have both children often feel lonely. Loneliness is a normal state of life, when you are lonely, you must learn to be self-consistent, and you must turn the lonely time into your own value-added period.

When you are lonely, I suggest you go and read the book, and I specially sent you a copy of "One Hundred Years of Solitude". This is a difficult book to chew, if you are lonely and lonely, you can read this book, maybe you can understand the meaning of loneliness and the charm of literature.

Yes, people over forty, single state, there will indeed be social pressure, but I advise you, single, lonely is also a kind of life "gift", don't be too anxious to refuse this "gift", in the lonely days, do both internal and external cultivation, improve yourself, with books as a companion, develop more healthy and upward hobbies, I believe that you will live a single life as bright as brocade.

There is a saying that if you bloom, butterflies will come. Work hard, I believe that in the near future, you will meet the "honored guests" who belong to you in your life.

Jiaozuo**Quan**Reporter Zhao Gailing reports.

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