Yesterday, a netizen left me a message saying that my daughter is a little tsundere like her when she was a child, everyone is a child of the rivers and lakes, so she should have a little temper to have a taste, I think it's right! Today's children are too well protected by their parents and elders in the family, and it can even be said that they are overprotective, for fear of bumping into each other, everything is centered on children, and everyone in the family revolves around a child.
Yesterday, I saw a treasure mother post in the circle of friends: Seeing everyone around and serving him, I am so envious! The picture shows the child being surrounded by grandparents and grandmothers in the middle, grandma squatting to feed water and drink, grandma is also squatting, holding food in her hand, and the grandfather is carrying a big backpack and lovingly staring at the child to drink water, while the mother is taking pictures.
Our daughter is about the same age as this mother's son, but I never serve my daughter to drink water like this, before the water cup she can open by herself, when I want to drink water, I will directly take the water cup to her, let her open it by herself, now this water cup is closed to be buckled, she can't open it, I just opened it and handed it to her, I won't hold it for her, she just comes to drink it, grandma will occasionally give her, but I see it will say let her take it herself.
Regarding the aspect of eating, this mother also asked me what kind of oil I used for our daughter to stir-fry, I said that we usually eat oil, she said she wanted to buy special children's oil, I said I don't think it's necessary, but this depends on yourself, we raise it rougher. Our daughter did eat the same meal as us adults, but she put less salt, less oil, and no chili peppers. I think that whether you are an adult or a child, you live in more than just a fixed space called home, and a child will one day have to come into contact with society, and it is impossible for adults to protect her forever. The child's grandmother also refused to let me eat the chicken wings I bought from outside, saying that it was unhygienic, and I said that I didn't give her a lot of food, let her taste it, and let her know what this thing is. If you control her too strictly since she was a child, and you don't let her eat anything, when she grows up, she may retaliate by eating things she didn't eat when she was a child, these are your so-called junk food, and it doesn't matter if you eat it properly, because after all, we have to slowly adapt to society, not society to settle us.
There are also some grandparents in the community, in order to take the child to eat only two meals a day, at noon there is no time to get food for themselves, take the child out to play in the morning, and when the child comes home, the child shouts that he is hungry to eat, so he quickly got the child, and he had to feed it himself, the child did not have time to wash the bowl and said that he was sleepy, and immediately went to sleep, the child fell asleep before he had time to come out to wash the dishes, and so everything was cleaned up at more than 2 o'clock, and he was so tired that he didn't want to get his own meal, only to eat some biscuits or something. And such examples are not one or two. I once told my mother-in-law that at noon, either you eat a simpler meal, or you will have a regular meal, the dishes will be ready in the morning, and the meal will be good when you come back, and you can eat directly by stir-frying, and you can never let yourself go hungry, only if you have a good body can you do anything else.
As parents, we teach her more the skills to live and learn, rather than saying: let me do it all the time! In this way, they will go better and better on the road of growth, and I wish all the babies a happy and wonderful childhood!