Most capable women who have a certain amount of wealth accumulation do not like to show off and do not like to be noble in front of others, because they will "show their wealth".
They are usually low-key, and they will not let people really know their strength, and they will have the following 2 "clumsy" characteristics.
In the TV series "It's All Good", Su Mingyu is already rich and free at a young age, and has many valuable private residences.
But she will never be manipulated by the people around her, and she will not suffer in vain, because she knows how to keep money, and she will not take care of all the things of her relatives because she is very rich.
The uncle's family wants to rely on Su Mingyu's family, hoping that after the death of their sister, that is, Su Mingyu's mother, the Su family can still continue to support their son's school for free, and cheekily come to the door to ask.
Su Mingyu did not rely on the fact that he was rich to meet their unreasonable demands, but took out his mother's account book and asked his uncle to pay off his mother's financial support for him over the years, and then discuss the matter of supporting their son's schooling.
As a result, the Su family has funded them for more than 300,000 yuan over the years, and their son's school expenses are only about 100,000 yuan.
As a result, the uncle's family walked away in disgrace and no longer provided for their son's education.
A wise woman, with a sober concept of wealth, will not blindly satisfy their desires with her relatives, but will stop in moderation.
If there is always no bottom line to satisfy, then it will be a bottomless pit that can never be filled.
I heard a story from a friend:
She once served as an interim team leader, leading a team member to complete a project.
The original plan was that she planned the task by herself, and then assigned it to the team members to carry it out.
As a result, her boss stopped her and told her that it was not appropriate to do so, and that she should discuss it with everyone first, gather everyone's opinions, and then let everyone take their own tasks.
She didn't understand the meaning, but she did it.
Privately she asked her boss why, and her boss said to her
There is an additional commission for this project, and if you implement it according to your ideas, then it will not be much in everyone's hands. But if you do what I teach you, everybody gets a little more. Don't forget, they have the right to vote for the group leader. Although you are capable, you still have to give everyone a chance in the group. ”
Sure enough, in the follow-up projects, everyone was willing to elect her to continue to be the team leader.
Wise women understand the rules of the group very well, they do not seek to stand alone, but want a hundred flowers to bloom.
Even if you have 10 points of ability, in the group, don't show it all, give everyone a fair chance to show it.
Really capable women understand the meaning of hibernation, and they have always kept a low profile about their wealth.
Neither will he fed the selfish desires of his relatives with a big deal of money and brainlessness, nor will he let himself become the target of public criticism in the crowd.
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