In Chen Junsheng's story, Luo Zijun's letting go made the big house a turning point for him. Once, in order to stay with Ling Ling, he experienced separation and pain. However, the divorce from Luo Zijun brought new challenges, and the family needed a larger home to accommodate his family of five.
Therefore, Chen Junsheng discussed with Luo Zijun to change the house, although he was prepared to be rejected in his heart, Luo Zijun finally agreed to this proposal and no longer embarrassed him. Chen Junsheng moved into a big house, and from this decision, his fate began to reverse.
In fact, Chen Junsheng never thought of getting divorced from Luo Zijun. When he was still an ordinary employee, Xue Zhenzhu once opposed Luo Zijun marrying him. He had to promise Xue Zhenzhu that he would give Luo Zijun a happy life, and finally won her consent.
Chen Junsheng worked hard and was promoted step by step from the grassroots to the project manager, with an annual salary of 1.5 million yuan and living in a large house of 200 square meters. He fulfilled his promise and successfully counterattacked. However, Luo Zijun was immersed in the promises of the past and became lazy and unenterprising.
Tang Jing once asked Luo Zijun how she would deal with Chen Junsheng's empathy? Luo Zijun replied: "Death is shown to him." This sentence is chilling. Later, Chen Junsheng complained to Ling Ling, who suggested that he find a job for Luo Zijun, but Chen Junsheng knew that she would not accept it because she was stubborn and unwilling to change. Stubborn people often struggle to progress, and even if they have the ability, they are unable to achieve higher achievements. Looking back, I had a similar experience.
I have been engaged in e-commerce for many years, but the business has not been smooth, and despite my efforts, I have not been able to break through the difficulties. I was overwhelmed by my monthly mortgage, and I resisted every suggestion that I change careers. I firmly believe that as long as you stick with it, the e-commerce business will be better. However, my stubbornness only led to worse results, business was getting worse and my mood was getting more and more anxious. It wasn't until I learned to let go of my obsessions and switch to learning to write that I found a new direction in my life.
After reconciling with myself, I found that life was full of surprises. I no longer worry about my mortgage, and I have learned to beat around the bush and stop internal friction. After Luo Zijun divorced, he also let go of his stubbornness and accepted a new life. Chen Junsheng needed a bigger house, and she traded a smaller home for financial freedom and more time for her son.
She started selling shoes in malls and became a sales champion. Seeing Chen Junsheng's suggestion for the sake of the child, she also accepted it generously, no longer worried about her son being taken away, but supported him to get along more with his father. Luo Zijun's life has become more resilient, and she has won He Han's respect because she is able to handle various situations flexibly.
Therefore, as long as a person does not cling to the inherent concept and knows how to change, he can succeed and become a better version of himself.
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