Our parents are the closest people to us, and they are always there for us to care for us. Sometimes, however, issues in the family can undermine family relationships. In this article, we learned:Li Qingand Huang Qiang's story, they encountered the problem of their mother-in-law proposing AA family rules.
Before marriage,Li Qingand Huang Qiang met on a blind date and chose to get married. Although Huang Qiang's mother-in-law asked beforehandLi QingIntroduced the situation that their family has a lot of money, butLi QingDon't care about property. She is looking for someone who is good to her, and Huang Qiang's gentle personality attracts her.
However, after getting married,Li Qingonly to find out that my mother-in-law was very picky. She's rightLi QingI am very picky about buying clothesWeddingsPreparations have also begun to be carefully calculated. Every time my mother-in-law saw a courier package, she laughedLi QingSpend money at any cost. These complaints letLi QingFeeling treated as an outsider rather than a family member.
At first,Li QingWould explain her reasons for shopping, but as time went on, her patience ran out. The mother-in-law's stinginess is not only in shopping, but even housework has become an AA system, and even includes grocery shopping. Li QingThe conflict with his mother-in-law is becoming more and more intense.
And whenLi Qingof parents are experiencing financial hardship when they pleadLi QingSell your pre-marital property to help them turnover. However, when the mother-in-law found out, she made a requestLi QingGive her half of the sale price, otherwise divorce. This time, the mother-in-law's family threatened to give wayLi QingFurious, he decided to divorce.
In this story, the mother-in-law's behavior is the causeMarriageThe main reason for the escalating contradictions. However, Huang Qiang, as a husband, is also responsibleMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipto play a mediating role. He chose to support his mother-in-law's position instead of siding with his wife, which made the conflict even more serious.
AsLi QingShe was faced with the dilemma of having to make a decision. She can choose a divorce to resolve the conflict with her mother-in-law, but this also means giving up her relationship with Huang QiangMarriage。On the other hand, she can also try to have in-depth communication and negotiation with Huang Qiang to find a compromise solution.
When dealing with this issue,Li QingYou should first clarify your bottom line and needs, and communicate with Huang Qiang frankly. She can express her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law's slamming behavior and propose a reasonable solution. For example, it is possible to itemize household expenses and create a fair family financial plan to avoid too many arguments and misunderstandings. If Huang Qiang continues to support his mother-in-law's position,Li QingCouples can be consideredMarriageCounseling, seeking professional help.
In the process of resolving the issue through negotiation, both sides need to maintain a rational and peaceful attitude and respect each other's feelings and opinions. And most importantly,Li QingYou must stick to your bottom line and ensure that your rights and interests are respected and protected.