To deal with such people who do not know etiquette and shame, we cannot deal with them with ordinary people's life thinking, but should solve them with struggle thinking.
Given you three strategies, you can calmly solve it according to the actual situation, and ensure that it is targeted and absolutely effective.
The best policy is Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan. Show it weakness, let it run rampant, and finally "let it perish".
The middle strategy is the strategy of "if people don't offend me, I won't offend others, and if people offend me, I will offend others".
The next policy is Mr. Jin Yong's Jiuyang Shengong Mental Method: "He is strong by him, and the breeze blows the hills." He let him be horizontal, and the bright moon shines on the river." Endure humiliation and procrastination, and let it fend for itself.
Clause. 1. Zheng Boke Duan Yuyan. It mainly tells the story of a life-and-death struggle between Zheng Zhuang Gong and his younger brother Gongshu Duan in the first year of Lu Yin (722 BC) in order to seize the throne of the monarch. Zheng Zhuanggong designed and deliberately connived at his younger brother Gongshu Duan and his mother Wu Jiang, and his younger brother was arrogant, so he wanted to seize the throne of the monarch, and Zhuang Gong used this to crusade against Gongshu Duan. Gongshu Duan was finally ruined.
What you need to do is to forbear first, indulge your ex-boyfriend, make him proud, and have the desire to continue to control and bully you, and there will be no bad consequences, and in the long run, the arrogance will be even more arrogant. The only sense of reason and reverence for the law in your heart may be lost, and they will continue to vent their anger and anger on you.
Heaven wants to destroy it, and it must first make it mad.
Over time, the ex-boyfriend must have out-of-character words or actions.
What you need is to stand still and collect evidence silently. Including WeChat, text messages, voice, **, etc., to harass your words and deeds, all recorded and sorted, find the right time, either call the police, or**.
A fatal blow will either bring him to the ground and ruin his reputation, or let the public security organs investigate his administrative or criminal responsibility in accordance with the law. Eliminate the troubles once and for all.
The second-for-tat. If he finds someone to scold you, you will scold you back; If he harasses you, you will reprimand him, and if he follows him, you will go to his unit to accuse, and if it doesn't work, you will call the police directly. Or change **, change address, all measures can be taken, don't break the law, you have to have a dog stick!
The third is procrastination. Ignore everything and stay away from garbage people. Let time wear it all down. You have to have a strong heart to turn a blind eye to your ex-boyfriend's spoof.
Life is like that, you can't live if you don't fight.