When interacting with people, some people will feel relatively easy to get along with, and they can feel the kindness from the bottom of her heart.
And some people, getting along with her will make people feel very tired, and even feel speculation and even unkindness from her.
We always like to keep guessing each other's mood, keep guessing each other's thoughts, and then start to panic, start to suffer from gains and losses, start to blame ourselves for not being good enough, experience tells you that being too sensitive is the beginning of loss.In life, some women, perhaps because they are not confident enough, are always suspicious when getting along with others, and they are too concerned about what others think of her, and they cannot achieve absolute trust in others.
Naturally, they often fail to truly open their hearts to others and have absolute heart-to-heart with others.
Once a woman develops these bad habits, over time, she will be unconsciously alienated by others, affecting her interpersonal relationships, which will also damage her luck.
Therefore, if a woman has the following three "bad habits", she should change them as soon as possible and don't take them seriously.
I always feel that others have bad intentions and are targeting me
Sensitive and suspicious, often inseparable.
In real life, there are always some more sentimental people, when interacting with people, often make the atmosphere in a tense state, forming a certain pressure on both parties, so that people can not achieve real relaxation in their hearts.
They often misinterpret the words and deeds of others, have unwarranted suspicions about others, feel that others have bad intentions towards them, and are always directed at them.
Sometimes, they also feel hurt by a good-natured joke from others.
And impose this wrong idea on others, thinking that the hearts of others are full of malice towards themselves.
This bad habit and negative attitude of a woman will not only bring a lot of troubles to herself, but also easily make her gradually alienated in interpersonal communication.
I always feel that others deliberately ignore me and don't care about myself
Emphasizing, highlighting oneself, and being self-centered are problems that many people have.
After all, being liked and paid attention to is everyone's inner need, and no one wants to be ignored and ignored everywhere.
However, if you pursue too much, the opinions and attitudes of others about you in your words and deeds will not only add to the burden on others, but also often disappoint yourself.
Because, in this world, no one will treat you the way you want to be treated, except yourself.
No matter how attentive others are to you, it will be difficult to meet your requirements, and there will always be negligence or inability to take care of it.
Naturally, there will be no one who can really meet your exorbitant expectations.
When what you want is in vain and your ideals cannot be realized, this kind of woman will have the psychology of being ignored and not cared about.
If you can't get happiness in your heart, you will unconsciously bring it to your emotions, which will affect the harmony of your relationship with others.
I always feel that others are asking and I am giving
get, in favor of yourself; And giving often means that you have to lose.
Perhaps, this is the general psychology that it is easier for people to accept to ask than to give.
However, the selfless and regardless of the gains and losses, except for the parents, is himself.
Therefore, the maintenance of the relationship between people requires mutual dedication, and the absence of either party will not make the relationship last for a long time.
Naturally, it is not advisable to be careful, if you always highlight your own efforts and ignore the contributions of others, it will affect the harmony of the relationship between the two.
In this way, it is easy to make the other party feel unhappy or even bored.
In the end, the relationship between the two was strained, and it was even difficult to continue.
Sakura message
When a person has bad habits, he naturally has to change his mind, otherwise, it will only bring negative effects to himself.
In our dealings with others, we must learn to feel and trust the kindness of others.
At the same time, realize that everyone is equal and don't always put yourself at the center.
In everything, only if you don't have too high expectations, it is not easy to form too many gap psychology.
In the process of interacting with others, we must also learn to find a sense of balance, only by opening up our minds and looking down on all gains and losses, can we maintain a positive attitude and make our lives more fulfilling.