Do you also have such problems? Why is it that you've given her the best of yourself, and she's accepted it, and the story still hasn't developed the way you want it to?
I believe that the vast majority of men, once they are attracted to a woman, will definitely try their best to give her the best of their ability. Show your charm in front of her, and hope that she can believe in her love and ability, and believe that with you, you can meet happiness.
However, in real life, there are many men who have repeatedly hit a wall and been defeated on the road of pursuing women.
The point is that they don't figure out what exactly a woman wants, or they don't grasp the good time to let the relationship develop or even sublimate.
In fact, in the face of a woman who can't get it, if a man does this, she will chase you upside down.
1.Abrupt departure after a desperate chase
Many men will adopt a strategy of relentless pursuit when pursuing women. They believe that as long as they are persistent and persistent enough, they will definitely be able to touch the hearts of each other. However, this tactic often only makes women feel stressed and disgusted. Because, when you are always around her and constantly show favor and confess to her, she will feel that you are a man who has no ego and is very unattractive.
On the contrary, if you suddenly choose to leave the scene after chasing her, no longer take the initiative to contact her, and no longer revolve around her, she will become curious and concerned about you. She would think, "Why did this man disappear all of a sudden?" Wasn't he nice to me before? Did he give up? This psychological contrast will make her start to reflect on your relationship and even take the initiative to contact you.
Of course, leaving here is not really giving up, but giving each other some time and space. You can use this time to improve yourself and make yourself more attractive and attractive. When she sees you again, she will find that you are no longer the man who only revolves around her before, but a more independent and attractive existence. At this time, she will become more interested and liking towards you.
2.Great achievements in their careers
A man's charm and attractiveness do not come solely from his appearance, words and deeds. What is more important is his inner qualities and strengths. And career achievements are the best embodiment of a man's strength and charm.
When you achieve great things in your career, you become more confident and confident. Your horizons and pattern will also become more open and far-reaching. This kind of confidence and confidence will make you more calm and calm in front of women. You will no longer be nervous because of her small actions or words, and you will no longer give up easily because of her refusal.
At the same time, career success will also make you more materially rich and abundant. You can provide her with a better life and enjoyment, and make her feel your strength and sincerity.
This kind of material security and satisfaction will make women trust and rely on you more. When she sees that you are able to achieve so much in your career, she will also develop more admiration and appreciation for you. At this time, she will take the initiative to approach you, hoping to join hands with you.
3.If you are away from the care and affirmation
In the process of pursuing women, men often make a mistake: they are overly concerned and entangled. They believe that as long as they pay attention to each other's every move, they can make the other person feel their love and care. However, this excessive care and entanglement will only make women feel oppressed and constrained.
On the contrary, if you can adopt a detached attitude to care for and affirm her, it will make her feel more like and dependent on you. Specifically, it is to give her care and attention at the right time, so that she can feel your warmth and care; But at the same time, keep a certain distance and independence, and don't let her think that you are a man without ego and charm.
For example, when she encounters difficulties or troubles, you can take the initiative to lend a helping hand and give her help and support. But when she is happy or busy, you can also choose to pay attention to her silently and bless her, instead of bothering her and pestering her all the time.
This kind of attitude and behavior will make a woman think that you are a man who is both warm and attractive. When she gets used to your presence and care, she will take the initiative to approach you and pursue you.