If we recognize that men are the pillars of the family, then women are the soul of the family! A wife with virtuous virtues and an understanding of all aspects of the world can give those ordinary and mediocre days an incomparably brilliant color! On the other hand, if the wife is bitter and greedy, the family will fall into chaos and strife. Therefore, for men, the best investment in life is not to buy a house and a car, but to choose the right wife who will be by your side for a long time! The temperature of the wife determines the sweetness of the marriage!
Someone once said: "One of the key elements of whether a family is happy or not lies in the emotional temperature of the wife." "It is undeniable that a tolerant and gentle heart can be called a solid guarantee for a happy marriage, and it is the greatest source of luck for the family!
For example, there are two men of the same age in our neighborhood, the eldest brother has opened a grain store and is doing a prosperous business. The younger brother works hard at home farming. However, since they got married, the circumstances of the two brothers, who were originally equal competitors, have gradually diverged.
It is said that the eldest brother's wife has a bad temper and often gives orders to her husband, either resenting him for failing to do his due diligence in housework, or accusing him of being too generous to his clients. After repeating this several times, the eldest brother gave *** to his relatives and friends who wanted to buy rice, which finally angered his wife. In an instant, the argument between the two intensified. Faced with this situation, the customer in it seemed very embarrassed, and after a few polite greetings with the eldest brother, he left in a hurry, and his condition has not improved since then, so that his store is facing the fate of imminent closure.
On the other hand, the younger brother's wife is gentle and optimistic. Whenever her younger brother goes out to work, she will tidy up her home and cook delicious meals every day, waiting for her husband to return from work. One day, when the sun was setting, she was still waiting, and she did not see her husband until eight o'clock in the evening. It was close to ten o'clock when my weather-beaten husband finally returned home with a tired face. He told his wife that he was late to help a lost child get home. Hearing this, the wife, instead of the slightest resentment, praised her husband's zealous heart and lamented that the good will be blessed in the end.
Happiness always followed, and it wasn't long before the hard-working wife conceived a baby and gave birth to a clever daughter. Such a family of three is becoming more and more full of vitality and vitality.
In fact, the wife's state of mind directly affects the degree of harmony between the husband and wife. The beauty of an emotionally stable wife is not only that it can bring pleasure to the family, but also that it can make an otherwise boring home warm and pleasant. Therefore, Warren Buffett once said frankly: "The most important investment in my life is not **, but which lady to choose to be my lifelong partner." ”
Finding a virtuous wife is a source of happiness for the whole family. A good wife will definitely help you create a happy family atmosphere. When your wife communicates with you with a pleasant face, you can create a close and harmonious family relationship; Only when your wife is sensitive and understands your needs can the marriage relationship last forever.
Moreover, it needs to be emphasized that the values of the wife hide the future direction of the child. The British writer William Golding put forward the view in his book "Family Education": "The quality and moral development of children are often directly guided and influenced by the mother. "Therefore, everyone is growing up without the profound influence of their mother. If a mother has a broad vision, then her children must have a broad mind; If a mother's outlook on life is correct, her offspring's academic and moral character will inevitably go hand in hand.
For example, Wang Xinyi, a model of the old saying "a noble son from a poor family", was admitted to Peking University, the highest university in China, with an excellent score of 707 points, with amazing efforts. In her self-recommendation letter "Thank You for the Poor", she described in detail the selfless assistance and profound influence provided by her mother in her own growth path, which broke the hearts of many people.
Wang Xinyi, who was born in poverty, became the object of gossip and joke among her classmates because she often wore shabby clothes. Once, with tears in her eyes, she complained to her mother with a broken heart: "My classmates laughed at my dress and said that I was a ...... from the countrysideHowever, in the face of her daughter's crying, the mother replied indifferently: "You don't need to pay too much attention to the eyes of others, you should pay attention to your own quality of life, only in this way can you live a more chic life." ”
Since then, Wang Xinyi has been well versed in her mother's teachings, and has thrown herself into her studies without feeling inferior to material scarcity. Despite the constraints of life, my mother has never complained, but has always been silently caring.
Just imagine, if the mother is addicted to the tedious daily life, is mired in the quagmire and does not dare to struggle, and is indifferent to the growth of her children, then I am afraid that our protagonist Wang Xinyi will not be able to achieve such brilliant results, and may only be able to spend an ordinary life in the gloom.
Quoted from Visual China.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once pointed out sonorously: "If mothers can provide their children with correct ideas and concepts as a solid foundation, it is undoubtedly equivalent to a commitment to an invincible support for them in the face of a complex world." In fact, the power of the mother controls the image of the child's future like a sculpture.
A wife with the right values can not only create a harmonious family atmosphere, but also invisibly set a shining example for her children and escort them on the road to growth.
Looking back on the dusty past, we can always easily find the figure of the mother who paid silently, they were tenacious and brave in the face of hardships and hardships, and used the power of the warm sun as soft as spring to educate children to think independently, respect their individual choices, guide them towards a hopeful future, and give them the courage to face the ups and downs of life.
The wife's vision is directly related to the rise and fall of the family.
We are familiar with the famous saying: "Your parents set the starting line of your life, and your wife determines your final destination." Indeed, the partner a man chooses not only determines his personal life circumstances, but also profoundly affects the development trajectory of the entire family.
Women with high cognitive abilities understand the importance of husband and wife working together and will do their best to achieve their husbands.
Mr. Ma Weidu, a world-famous collector of oriental cultural and art treasures, was just an ordinary industrial worker in his best years. However, his obsession with ancient artifacts led him to spend huge sums of money on bottles and jars, worn tables and old chairs that no one cared about. Just when he decided to put down his current job and devote himself to the cause of collecting cultural relics, his relatives all scoffed at him and ridiculed him for being absurd and idle.
Only his wife, Ms. Jia Hongwei, firmly believes that those seemingly dilapidated old objects actually have high research value and market potential. She is a steadfast supporter of her husband's choice and determined to accompany him in the management of these precious collections. With the help of Ms. Jia Hongwei, Mr. Ma Weidu was able to acquire many artworks with huge appreciation space at a very low price. Over the years, the number and quality of their collections have increased, and Mr. Ma Weidu has become a well-known expert in the identification of top cultural relics.
A friend half-jokingly said, "Now that you are worth billions, don't you want to find a younger, more beautiful and eye-catching new relationship?" In this way, it will not only add to your brilliance, but also look more decent and classy in social situations. "Mr. Ma Weidu replied in a resolute tone: "Resolutely, no, her value far exceeds any of my collections!"
Whether married life is happy or not, you only need to look at the wife who is by your side to see everything. A wife with deep understanding can become an indispensable assistant to her husband in his career, and will give him encouragement and encouragement to forge ahead and climb the peak of his career, whether it is difficult or proud. On the other hand, if you meet a wife who has shallow knowledge and adheres to her own opinions, her husband may lose confidence, fall into a predicament of confusion, and become unmotivated.
I have always agreed with the saying, "The level of knowledge you have is the insurmountable gap that determines the level of your life." In the same way, the wife's thinking and perception will have a profound impact on the direction of her husband's life. And the truly magnificent women know how to appreciate and appreciate their husband's outstanding talents, and they will do their best to help him to be more relaxed and more comfortable on the road to success.
As people say, marrying a good wife is more important than owning 10,000 acres of fertile land. From ancient times to the present, many beautiful stories of good couples tell us that because men marry a wife who knows how to cherish, they become extremely lucky, their work is smooth, and their families are harmonious and happy.
Tang Dynasty ancestor Li Yuan and Empress Dou and his wife had a deep affection, and together experienced magnificent changes in the times, calmed down the social turmoil that was full of disputes, and laid the cornerstone of the country to live and work in peace and contentment; Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty, won the wisdom and virtuous character of Empress Ma's mother, and finally became a generation of monarchs with the promotion of his virtuous help; Mr. Qian Zhongshu and Ms. Yang Jiang are harmonious, have the same heart, respect and love each other, and have become an enviable fairy couple in the field of literature; Mr. Warren Buffett, who is known as the god of stocks, also said frankly that a warm and loving wife is like a needle that stabilizes the relationship and makes the marriage happy. A wife with a good outlook is like a guiding light, taking her children to the right path and smooth path.
A well-informed wife is like a think tank, far-sighted, and supports her husband's successful career. Life is a sea of seas, may you have a wife like this, know each other, be in the same boat through thick and thin, have no waves in the years, and prosper for the rest of your life. Encourage you.