It has been 10 years since I came out of society, and the journey has been full of hardships, ups and downs and joys. Fortunately, although I only have a high school degree, I have not been in vain in the past 10 years, I have started a business 4 times, succeeded 2 times and failed 2 times, and bought a house twice before I turned 30.
My biggest gain in the past ten years is not only these two houses, but also my cognition, which is far more important than wealth. These years of experience have completely changed my cognition, especially I have a clearer understanding of the real situation of this society, and I will share it with you:
1. In the world of adults, the most trustworthy thing is not character but human nature.
Second, if you don't have the ability and are not strong enough, no matter who you are, you will be bullied, including your closest people, and even your children are not your own.
3. The fewer friends you have, the better your days will be. The person who hurts you the most is often the person who knows you best, fire prevention, theft prevention, girlfriend prevention, and confidant.
Fourth, indifference can save more than 80% of the troubles. One sentence "It's about my", and the other is "It's about your!"
Fifth, fairness and justice are for the weak, but the society needs them very much, because the people who are in the rules of the system are the strong, and the task of the strong is to harvest the weak.
Sixth, pure kindness is meaningless, strength is the hardest truth. The most meaningless thing in this society is to reason with people over and over again, and to take out everyone's heart and lungs, will only make you hurt more and more.
7. In a money society, money can solve 99% of the problems, and the remaining 1% of the problems need more money to solve. From the cradle to the grave, no one can live without money.
8. The essence of society is that people eat people, the weak eat the strong, and the survival of the fittest, all of which are applicable, so don't be too emotional.
9. Most of the things you can see on the Internet are basically not true, and what you know is often what others want you to know, and a lot of news needs to be read in reverse.
10. The best psychiatrist in the world is not a patient partner, but a rich self, because only money can make you transparent.
Only when a person earns money can he have a deeper understanding of the world and truly understand the real operating mechanism of society. And when there is no money, firewood, rice, oil, salt and vinegar are all an original sin for you.
It's not that the road will be easier to walk when there are more friends, but when the road is good, there will be more and more friends.