In life, there are always some couples who choose to remarry after divorce for various reasons.
But after remarriage, can you really be happy? Not really.
Whether you have a happy marriage or not depends not on whether you change people, but whether your cognition has changed.
Cognition has changed, and you can be happy without changing people. If the cognition does not change, it will still be unfortunate if it is replaced.
The same is true for whether you can be happy after remarriage.
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When they divorced, Xiao Jing and the man both cursed and swore the same curse that they would never see each other again, and they would never communicate with each other all the time.
But not everoneyear, the two remarried.
But after remarriage, life is still a chicken feather, and every time she quarrels, Xiao Jing can't help but sigh: Do the two of them want to divorce again?
Xiao Jing couldn't figure it out, obviously both of them wanted to start over and live a good life, how could they still live without a sense of happiness?
Xiao Jing and the man are a young couple, both of them have a very average family background, when they got married, neither of them received much support from the family, and they came all the way, mainly relying on their own hard work.
So after so many years of marriage, Xiao Jing has always had a sense of crisis, even if she bought a house and a car through the efforts of the two of them, Xiao Jing still didn't dare to relax at all.
But the man felt a little tired, when Xiao Jing proposed to buy a second house, the man simply and decisively refused, and after that, any family wealth plan proposed by Xiao Jing, the man either opposed it in person, or grinded foreign workers behind his back, and did not cooperate.
In short, ten years ago, when it was easiest to increase the value of family wealth, the man was the one who dragged his feet, and the economic situation of a small family could only be regarded as an ordinary well-off.
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Poor couples mourn everything.
When their son needed a school district house for elementary school, the couple had a heated argument. After all, a few years ago, Xiao Jing proposed countless times to buy the school district house where this elementary school is located, but the man refused.
The key primary school that can't get into, and the school choice fee that can't be taken out, which makes Xiao Jing more and more angry the more she thinks about it, the more angry she becomes, when her son is hopeless to study, the anger of the two people has also reached the top, Xiao Jing's anger and grievances accumulated in the past ten years are vented out, arguing and arguing, and one person blurts out: divorce! The other person is not to be outdone, just leave!
After completing their son's enrollment procedures, the two simply divorced decisively.
When she divorced, Xiao Jing also thought very clearly, in the past ten years, she has been dragging a man who just wants to lie flat every day, and she is too tired. If you leave, you will leave, and the next one will be more well-behaved.
Of course, men also think about the next one to be more well-behaved.
He feels that for so many years, he is like a donkey that keeps grinding, never stopping, he is too tired and tired, he wants to find a woman who is not so sharp and strong, and live a dull life.
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Three. But life is not so many ifs, after the divorce, both of them found that it was too difficult to find a better person.
Xiaojing is middle-aged and unmarried, and she is not popular in the marriage market, and most of the men she has contacted are older than her. And these men, without exception, just want to find an obedient good wife and mother and live a simple and casual life.
And what about men? The encounter was not much better. The son followed him, and successively contacted several blind dates, and as soon as they opened their mouths, they inquired about the salary of the house and car, which made the man feel a lot of pressure.
What's more, because of the decline in the overall situation of the industry, men are also at risk of unemployment and midlife crisis.
At this time, the man felt that Xiao Jing's idea was right.
With these two layers of reasons as a foreshadowing, plus they are separated again, they are far fragrant and smelly, and the relationship between the two people is not so tense.
Later, the parents of both parties found out and got involved, trying to persuade the two to remarry.
The so-called halfway husband and wife are thieves, considering the parents and children, and because of economic interests, a year after the divorce, the two got married for the second time.
But after remarriage, life is still chicken feathers.
has missed the best period for career development, and no matter how hard a man works, he can only maintain the status quo.
The appreciation of family wealth has long been in vain, and all the problems are still problems.
When work and life are not going well, Xiao Jing can't help but turn over old accounts, and men directly choose Cold War.
The kind of beauty that arose because of distance before remarriage is gone in the face of real life. Life is back to square one.
Angry divorce, impulsive remarriage, such a couple, remarriage is also very difficult, and even if another person remarries, it is not necessarily happy.
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