Layue does not borrow money, which is a kind of wisdom and advice from the people. As the last month of the year, people are preparing for the New Year at this time, and they need to spend a certain amount of money to buy items needed for the festival, such as New Year's goods, new clothes, furniture, etc. Therefore, since ancient times, people have been taboo to lend money to others or borrow money from others in the lunar month. On the one hand, if you lend money, you may be tight on hand, which may affect your preparations for the New Year. On the other hand, since the lunar month is the coldest time of the year, many people are reluctant to go out, and if the money they lend needs to be recovered, they may brave the cold to find a borrower, reducing the comfort of life. Therefore, not borrowing money in the lunar month is to protect one's financial luck and family peace.
In addition, the wax moon provides people with abundant food**, which people can stock up on to survive the cold winters. The custom of not borrowing money in the lunar month is also to remind people not to be in debt because they are busy with the New Year, but to prepare New Year's goods and expenses in advance to ensure their economic security and happiness in the new year.
It is a traditional custom of the people not to be engaged in the lunar month. In Chinese wedding customs, engagement is an important part, and it is common to choose an auspicious day for engagement after the marriage of two prospective couples has been determined. In the month of Wax, people will avoid making such marriage decisions. On the one hand, as the last month of the year, people tend to be more stable and conservative, and are reluctant to make major changes. On the other hand, the wax moon is also a time of colorful celebrations and sacrifices, and betrothals may conflict with sacrificial traditions and celebrations, affecting the traditional customs of both families. In addition, if the engagement is carried out in the month of La, then the time of the newlywed will be delayed until next year, which is considered incomplete and will also bring bad om.
However, this is not to say that engagements or weddings are completely forbidden in the month of Wax. In fact, the lunar month is also the peak season for weddings in some places, and people can choose to have their weddings in the lunar month to enjoy the festive atmosphere and blessings. There is no shortage of happy examples of couples who are engaged in the month of Layue. However, people are more likely to use the wax moon as a calm time to reflect and prepare for the arrival of the new year.
The wax moon is a month full of festivity and peaceful atmosphere, so not quarreling in the wax moon is a kind of wisdom and advice from the people. Quarrels can disrupt the harmonious atmosphere of the family and affect the happiness and luck of the whole family. As the ancients said, "the family and everything prospers", and the harmonious relationship of the family is the foundation of a person's happiness and success.
In this special season of the lunar month, people are busy preparing for the New Year, buying New Year's goods, dressing up new homes, preparing for New Year's greetings and family reunions, and enjoying the warmth of family. A quarrel will break this happy atmosphere, not only affecting your own mood, but also the mood of your family, bringing a bad omen for the New Year. Moreover, the wax moon is the coldest time of the year, and people are more inclined to stay at home and not go out, so they should enjoy a harmonious and warm family atmosphere and avoid conflicts and quarrels.
Therefore, the reason for not quarreling in the lunar month is to maintain the harmony and happiness of the family, and I hope that the family will spend this special season in unity and harmony.
Not moving in the lunar month is one of the traditional folk customs. Moving is a big event that involves the movement of families and changes in circumstances. The wax moon is the last month of the year, and people are busy preparing for the Chinese New Year, shopping for New Year's goods, festive traditional festivals and sacrifices, etc. Moving at such an important and busy time will not only affect the preparations for the Chinese New Year, but may also disrupt the stability and comfort of the family.
In addition, the wax moon is one of the coldest seasons of the year, and moving can be affected by severe cold and bad weather, bringing difficulties and risks to the construction and moving process. Moreover, moving involves the sorting and arrangement of household belongings, and the atmosphere of the lunar month should pay more attention to family reunion and warmth, so people are more inclined to spend time and energy on more important things.
In addition, the non-moving of the lunar month also originated from the concept of feng shui. In traditional Chinese culture, building a house is an important thing, and factors such as feng shui and topography need to be taken into account. If you move during the special month of Lunar New Year, you may encounter an unlucky "evil spirit" that will have a negative impact on your new home. Therefore, people will choose to avoid moving in Wax Moon to avoid unlucky and ominous influences.
It is also a traditional custom not to build a house in Layue. Wax Moon is the last month of the lunar year, and people are busy preparing for the Chinese New Year, shopping for Chinese New Year goods, and family reunions, and few people choose to build a new house at this time.
First of all, the wax moon is the tail of winter, the weather is cold, and the conditions for building a house are not ideal. Especially in the northern region, the winter temperature is low, the weather is changeable, and the construction is difficult, which may lead to project delays or quality problems. And building a house is a difficult task that requires meticulous planning and construction to make it have a good experience and quality. Building a house at this time, you may face a lot of problems and difficulties, and you can't guarantee the quality and duration of the house.
Secondly, the wax moon is a month full of festivity and peace, and people pay more attention to family reunion and warmth. At such times, people often do not want to be distracted from building a house, but want to spend quality time with their families and enjoy the warmth and happiness of their families.
In addition, building a house also involves the concept of Feng Shui. In traditional Chinese culture, building a house is an important thing, and factors such as feng shui and topography need to be taken into account. According to these ideas, choosing the right time and place to build a house can bring good luck and blessings. Building a house in Layue may touch the unlucky "evil spirit" and have a negative impact on the new home.
Therefore, the custom of not building a house in Layue has been widely inherited and observed among the people. People will choose to enter the ** house construction at other times to ensure the smooth progress of the project and the peace of the family.