Hello Earl, I would like to hear your thoughts and suggestions now.
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for two years, and our relationship is very stable at present, and we have also met our parents, and we plan to get the certificate in 2024. Both of our families do business locally, my family is A8 and his family is A10, but my family has not been able to get back the foreign debt in recent years, so the money is still relatively tight.
I have plans to study in the United States next year, and the elders in my boyfriend's family are very supportive of me and tell my boyfriend that if I need any help, I can tell them that they can help me with tuition and rent, and my boyfriend's attitude is the same, he feels that it is natural to spend money on his future wife.
So I'm very entangled now, on the one hand, I want his family to give me money to reduce the burden on my parents, and on the other hand, I feel that it is inappropriate to take money from my boyfriend's parents before I get married. I want to ask netizens, if it were you, how would you choose?
Supplement: Whether it is my boyfriend's grandparents or his mother, I have asked my boyfriend several times if I need help, and I know that they just want to support me in my studies and support my progress, and there are no other bad ideas. They are like this to all the children in the family. And these fees are also very small numbers for them.
Going to the U.S. for a master's degree? Did you read it? Strange love maybe you will be yellow, you must read, just get the certificate first and then go out to study, and get the tuition and living expenses in the name of justice. 】