If possible, let's start a family first, and there is an appropriate time for everything, and follow the way of heaven (the law of yin and yang).
Whether it is an animal or a person who is a high-level animal, there is the best time for yin and yang to be combined.
WhileAs long as people have a heart that is not willing to be mediocre, have the courage to pursue, and keep improving, when can they not start a business? Home and everything is prosperous, the strength and mind of two people are always more than one person, right? It's better to have one more person to fight the cruel life and the world together than to walk alone? Moreover, looking at ancient and modern China and foreign countries, are there few people who still make proud achievements when they are older? In ancient times, there were not a few good wives who urged their husbands to achieve their careers, right? One thing to be clearThere is a fixed law of human physiological maturity, which is given by God and is difficult to change, and the so-called career is the acquired choice, as the saying goes, "360 lines, the line out of the champion", the cause is not only 360 lines? Thousands of lines are more than that, right?
Then look back at the reality of the current era, how many women have become "leftover women" because of their so-called careers?
Besides, if you start a business and start a family, you will be there at that time, are you taking care of your family, children or career? Do you still have enough energy? You can't have it both ways
Career and work are for life and food, so after we leave one day, what will these external things do us benefit?
And children can be an extension of our lives!
Besides, there are big and small careers, how much do we need to live? Material abundance has its own way to make life happy - as long as you put your mind to it; Husband and wife are of the same heart, and eating bran and throat vegetables is also happiness, which is better than delicious food and different dreams in the same bed, cheating, and spending all day and wine
Comparatively speaking, the impact of career on the family is negative to the impact of family on career, if we are divided by a circle, we are in the center, and the family is closer to us than the career, otherwise the circle will collapse, the wife will be separated, and the family is more likely to be broken and killed.
Home and everything is prosperous, the family can provide power and auxiliary support for the career, the career is outside, it is fame and fortune, there is desire and greed, there is corruption, put the career in front of the family, and it is a matter of time before you cheat and drink all day.
Use extreme thinking to think about it, which one do you choose to start a family after you get married after you have an unlimited career in your 80s? Is there hope for the former or for the latter?
Of course, people's pursuits are different, and the choice of what kind of life path to take lies in the parties themselves, for example, some people love to be a third party, and some people are young and like the elderly with rich materials, I will not comment on this, I only remind you that:Fear cause and effect;
Today is the cause of yesterday's sowing; Know the consequences of tomorrow, and look at the causes of today.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program