Have you ever looked at the screen of your phone late at night, waiting for a message from him, only to be silent? Or, at a friend's party, pretending to mention him inadvertently, only to find that your heart was still beating so hard for him? Love, the most beautiful emotion in the world, can sometimes turn into a sharp knife that cuts our hearts.
If a man doesn't love you anymore, the best thing to do is to let go. This sentence sounds simple, but many people find it difficult to do.
We all long to be loved, to be held in the palm of our hands and pampered. But when love is gone, there are only two words to do: let go. True love should never be the giving of one party and the acceptance of the other, it should be mutual and equal.
Letting go, it doesn't mean you lose, on the contrary, it's a kind of growth. As the famous saying goes, "Life is not about surpassing others, but about surpassing yourself." "When you choose to let go, you are actually choosing to surpass your past self and give yourself a new beginning.
You might say, it's hard to let go! Yes, it is indeed not easy. However, time is the best healing medicine. The moment you decide to let go, time will slowly help you heal those wounds. You will find that without him, your life can still be exciting. You will think that when you were heartbroken and crying, it was so ridiculous.
When you let go gracefully, it is the beginning of your independence, and it is not dependent on anyone else to be strong. This kind of you is the most fascinating.
Letting go is also a kind of fulfillment. Someday, you'll be thankful for the choices you made today. Because you not only opened a new door for yourself, but also left an elegant back for the person who doesn't know how to cherish you.
So, when love is a thing of the past, don't be sad, don't despair. Turn around gracefully and greet your new life with the most beautiful posture. In this world, there is nothing that cannot be overcome. Every day can be a fresh start for as long as you want.
Finally, I would like to conclude with one sentence: "Letting go, not giving up, but a higher-level choice." ”