On February 5, in Huai'an, Jiangsu, a well-prepared wedding was waiting for an important moment - the groom received his kiss. For the bride and groom, it should be the happiest and most memorable day of life. However, no one thought that an unexpected marriage incident would cast a shadow on this wedding.According to local customs, the groom usually encounters various "trials" of the bride's relatives and friends when receiving relatives, and these trials often come in the form of red envelopes or gifts, aiming to make the wedding more interesting and festive. However, at this wedding in Huai'an, the test became extremely heavy.
When the groom arrived outside the door of the bride's residential unit, he was stopped by the bride's relatives and friends. Instead of simply asking for a red envelope or a cigarette as usual, these people simply opened their mouths and asked the groom to hand over 30 Chinese cigarettes as a condition for entering the door.
This requirement is not only enormous, but also goes completely beyond the usual local practice of marriage. The bridegroom was visibly helpless and confused by this sudden request. He knew that if he couldn't meet the requirements of these relatives and friends, he would probably not be able to get the bride and complete the wedding.
However, he also knew that the value of these 30 Chinese cigarettes had reached tens of thousands of yuan, which was a big burden for him and the bride. Under the tough attitude of his relatives and friends, the groom finally chose to compromise. He reluctantly bought 30 Chinese cigarettes to meet the demands of these relatives and friends.
This compromise did not bring him any relief and joy, on the contrary, his heart was full of helplessness and dissatisfaction. He understands that this wedding is no longer a matter between him and the bride, but has been kidnapped by these unreasonable wedding demands.
After the incident, an eyewitness revealed more details to **. She said that there is indeed a custom of blocking the door and asking for cigarettes in the local area, but it is usually enough to give a red envelope or a Chinese cigarette. It is very rare to ask for 30 Chinese cigarettes directly like this time.
She believes that this incident completely deviates from the original intention of the marriage and has become too absurd and outrageous. The incident quickly sparked a lot of discussion on social **. Many netizens expressed strong dissatisfaction and condemnation of the behavior of the bride's relatives and friends. They believe that the behavior of these relatives and friends is not only excessive, but also seriously damaged the festive atmosphere of the wedding.
Some netizens bluntly said: "This is not a marriage, this is a marriage robbery!" They appealed that there should be a degree of marriage and not be too outrageous. Otherwise, it will not only hurt the feelings between the couple, but also damage the harmonious relationship between relatives and friends.
In fact, marriage as a traditional custom has a long history in China. A moderate amount of marriage can increase the fun and festivity of the wedding, allowing the couple to share the joy with their relatives and friends. However, when the marriage becomes excessive, outrageous and even affects the essential meaning of the wedding, we need to reflect and resist.
A wedding is an important moment for two families to come together, and it symbolizes love and commitment between the couple. On this special day, relatives and friends should give more blessings and support to the newlyweds, instead of restricting them with unreasonable demands.
Such behavior not only goes against the original intention of the wedding, but also damages the harmonious relationship between relatives and friends. It should be recognized that although marriage as a traditional custom can increase the fun and festivity of the wedding, it also needs to have a reasonable limit.
We also hope that this incident will not have too much impact on the couple, and wish them a happy and prosperous married life in the future.
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