Middle age is like a poem, and years are like a song. In the torrent of time, we have experienced the baptism of wind and rain, and also tasted the ups and downs of life. Now, standing on the threshold of middle age, I have realized an important philosophy of life: do not talk about the long or short, do not argue about right and wrong, and never internal friction.
Not to mention the length, it is a kind of cultivation. The ancients said: "Sit quietly and often think about your own mistakes, and don't talk about others." "I no longer judge the strengths and weaknesses of others easily, because I understand that everyone has their own life trajectory and growth experience. Just like the cycle of the four seasons, each has its own time, and we don't need to judge others by our own standards. Only by learning to respect and understand, and embracing the diversity of the world with a tolerant heart, can we make our lives more harmonious.
Not arguing about right and wrong is a realm. As Lao Tzu said: "The husband is the only one who does not fight, so the world cannot fight with him." "In this complex world, right and wrong are often not absolute. Many times, we are overly obsessed with right and wrong, just consuming our energy and time. Not arguing about right and wrong, not to be passive and evasive, but to keep a clear mind in the midst of the many arguments, and to face all kinds of life with a peaceful mind. Indisputable is a kind of wisdom and a kind of self-confidence.
Never internal friction is a kind of life attitude. Life is too short, so why torture yourself? Internal friction is like an inner war, which makes us gradually lose the joy of life in exhaustion. Learning to let go of the worries and worries of the past and cherish the beauty of the present can restore peace of mind. Just like the poet Tao Yuanming said: "Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence, leisurely see Nanshan." This detachment from the world is what we are after.
Don't talk about the length, don't argue about right and wrong, never internal friction, let us be as quiet and beautiful as autumn leaves, as gorgeous as summer flowers. In this noisy world, keep a calm and calm, and feel the beauty of life with your heart. Let us use wisdom and courage to write our own wonderful life, like stars twinkling in the night sky, shining.