"Marriage, pregnancy, and childbirth, these seemingly ordinary experiences, but they are like a mirror, reflecting the ugliness and ugliness of the world. This is the cruel truth that many girls have learned when they are growing up.
She, an ordinary girl, entered the palace of marriage with a beautiful vision for the future. However, reality gave her a slap in the face. The repeated domestic violence and marital betrayal in the news made her wonder if those former mountain alliances and sea vows were just a passing thing. She couldn't help but sigh: "If life is only as it is when I first saw it, what is the autumn wind and sad fan." ”
Pregnancy, which was supposed to be the joy of life, became a huge test for her body and mind. The discomfort of pregnancy and the discrimination in the workplace are like heavy mountains, which overwhelm her. As the ancient poem says: "Who knows that Chinese food is hard work." "Can the life she worked so hard to conceive really bring happiness?
Finally, the child croaked to the ground, thinking that this was the end of the suffering, but she had thought that it was the beginning of another battle. The hardships of parenting and the pressure of her family made her feel helpless and lost. The image of the exhausted mother in those news seems to be a true portrayal of her. She asked herself, "Is this the price of growth?" ”
However, it was these experiences that made her like a phoenix and reborn. She learned to be strong, to face reality, and to find beauty in ugliness.
She understands that growing up is not a smooth journey, but the courage to forge ahead in the wind and rain. As Su Shi said: "Looking back at the bleak place, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine." ”
She understands that although the world is ugly, it doesn't mean that she has to go with the flow. She wants to be like a lotus, out of the mud without staining, clear ripples without demons.
She firmly believes that every experience is a grind and every setback is a growth. As Mencius said: "The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and muscles." ”
In this complex world, girls write chapters of growth in their own way. Their stories may be full of tears and sweat, but it is these experiences that make them strong in life and shine with their own light.