Don't envy others, because what you see is an appearance", I deeply believe this sentence. In real life, we often unconsciously envy others, and when we see the success, happiness and beauty of others, we will inevitably feel envy in our hearts. However, we must recognize that what we see is not necessarily the truth. Under the surface, there are many unknown bitterness and dedication.
First of all, we need to understand that everyone's success is not accidental. Before we envy the success of others, we should first understand the dedication and effort behind them. Behind success, there are often countless failures and setbacks, and these failures and setbacks are often invisible to us. Success requires dedication, perseverance, and continuous effort and struggle. If we only see the superficial success and ignore the efforts behind it, then we will fall into blind envy and cannot extricate ourselves.
Second, we need to recognize that everyone has their own life and values. We often think that other people's lives are better than our own, but in reality, this idea is very one-sided. Everyone has their own pursuits and goals, and has their own values and lifestyle. In other people's lives, there may be many difficulties and challenges that we cannot see, and there may be many struggles and contradictions within themselves. Therefore, we should not impose our values on others, nor should we think that other people's lives are better or worse than our own.
Finally, we need to learn to appreciate what we have. Too often, we tend to ignore what we have and go after what we feel is better. But what we have may be the envy of others. We should learn to be grateful and cherish, recognize the value of what we have, and not blindly pursue those things that are unrealistic.
In short, the saying "don't envy others, because what you see is appearances" makes a lot of sense. We should look at our own lives and those of others rationally, not be deceived by appearances, and not blindly envy others. Everyone has their own life and values, and everyone has their own pursuits and goals. We should respect the choices and values of others, while also cherishing what we have. Only in this way can we live a happy life that truly belongs to us.