As the saying goes: "Life is not as good as it should be."
In the midst of life's turbulent waves, each of us has experienced pain, frustration, failure, and sadness.
In the face of these predicaments, some people will choose to linger on their hearts and let the past become a scar in their hearts;
However, some people know how to forget and meet the challenges of the future with a positive attitude.
Forgetfulness is like an inner spiritual purification, which can help us find inner peace and peace in the complex world.
Forgetfulness is not simply forgetting the past, but refers to a calm and open-minded state of mind, a kind of wisdom to face the ups and downs of life calmly.
As the old saying goes, "forgetting things is good medicine", it is intended to tell us that learning to forget is the highest state of life.
Forgetfulness is a must in life
Life is like a long journey, full of ups and downs and thorns along the way.
In the process, we all encounter setbacks, failures, and pain.
If we are always dwelling on these negative experiences, it will be difficult to get back on our feet and move on.
If you want to keep going, you have to throw away the old packages that are useless, so that you can make sure that you go as far and fast as possible.
Everyone is carrying a load. If you carry too much, it will eventually become a stumbling block for yourself.
Forgetfulness is like a mental adjustment that allows us to remain calm and optimistic in the face of difficulties.
As Zhang Ailing said: "In this bizarre world, no one can live a smooth life."
But I always believe that after walking through the smoke and rain of Pinghu Lake, the mountains and rivers of the years, those who have gone through many disasters and tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and clean. ”
Forgetfulness is an open-minded state of mind
An open-minded mind is a kind of freedom of mind.
People with this mentality will not be entangled in trivial matters, and they will not let pain dominate their lives.
They are able to face the unsatisfactory in life with a positive attitude, so as to find hope in difficult situations and regain courage in setbacks.
As Cervantes wrote in Don Quixote: "The brave forge the path of their own destiny, and each man is the pioneer of his own destiny." ”
Throughout ancient and modern times, many celebrities and people with lofty ideals have understood the wisdom of forgetting.
Su Shi, a writer in the Song Dynasty, had a rough life and was belittled many times, but he always had an open-minded attitude.
In his poems, we can always feel that open-mindedness and detachment.
It is this forgetful wisdom that allows Su Shi to still find inner peace and happiness in difficult situations.
Forgetfulness is the wisdom to face life calmly
Wong Kar-wai said: "The biggest trouble of people is that they have a good memory, and if they can forget everything, every day in the future will be a new beginning, how happy it should be." ”
In fact, many people live so openly precisely because they have the wisdom of forgetfulness.
Only in this way will the journey of life seem extraordinarily easy.
Life is like a marathon, and we need to face one challenge after another.
In this process, if we can't let go of the failures and pains of the past, we will become timid and lose the motivation to move forward.
On the contrary, if we can face everything with a calm mind, we will become more determined and courageous.
As Hemingway said in The Old Man and the Sea, "A man can be destroyed, but not defeated." ”
In short, forgetfulness is the highest level of wisdom in life, which enables us to face life's challenges with a more calm and open-minded attitude.
In this era of rapid change, let us learn to forget and pursue a better future with a brave heart.
In the long years, I hope we can also have a heart of forgetfulness, not sad or happy, and the years are quiet.