1. Don't borrow money, even if you nibble on steamed buns and pickles, you have to carry it. Once you open your mouth to borrow money from others, your rank will be low, and you will be passed as soon as possible in the eyes of others, and you will immediately be defined as a person who cannot be handed over.
2. When you are old and have no use value, what is closest to you in this life is the money and faith you have.
3. The first to think you are poor, and the relatives who are afraid that you are rich are relatives. Proximity and proximity are determined by your strength. When you are poor, your relatives are too lazy to take care of you, afraid that you will borrow money from him and stay away from you. When you are rich, your relatives will help you borrow some money and rub some oil or something.
4. Look at a person, don't look at what he says, but look at what he does. It's like your girlfriend doesn't want to hear you say it's good to drink some hot water, but wants you to pour the hot water and bring it to her.
5. Don't care about face, face is worthless, you think too much of yourself, thinking that the eyes of the whole world are looking at you, but in fact, no one cares about you, the only person who cares about you is yourself.
6. Life is a time to get along with yourself, don't waste time and energy on others, what you should do most is to live your life well. It's time to eat, it's time to sleep, it's time to make money, and other messy people and things have nothing to do with you.
7. After leaving the previous work unit, the former colleagues should not be contacted, and it is useless to contact.
8. There can be no cattle in the eyes of acquaintances, there is no need to share the joy of success with others, and how much money you have, and don't tell anyone, including parents. If you talk too much, there will be a bunch of people who borrow money and want to take advantage of you.
9. Keep a certain distance from anyone, including husband and wife, between children, intimacy will produce a lot of contradictions, and distance produces beauty.
10. When you go to someone else's house for dinner, no matter how good the relationship is, you must also bring some gifts, don't go empty-handed, it's meaningless.
11. Don't expect others to help you, no one wants to pay attention to loser. People prefer the icing on the cake, they prefer to cheer on successful champions, and unknown athletes are ignored.
12. Never be that poor and generous person. As the saying goes, the poor are cautious and generous, and the rich are generous and stingy. Your poor and generous appearance is just a joke in the eyes of others, so it's better to be kind to yourself, don't die to save face.
13. Don't make yourself anxious and exhausted in order to maintain interpersonal relationships. The most fragile thing is the sophistication of human feelings, because out of a hundred things, you have done ninety-nine things right, and only one thing has not been done well, others will forget that you are ninety-nine good, and remember that one of you is not good. Thinking about this, I learned to look down on interpersonal relationships, since it is so vulnerable, then let it be, come when it should come, leave when it should go, don't be nostalgic, forget about the rivers and lakes, be chic and relieved, and take care of your mood is the right thing.