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Author: Fifth floor.
Some time ago, when I was returning to my hometown, I met my distant cousin by chance. As soon as I said a few words to my parents, my cousin touched my clothes and bag and asked what brand it was?
After asking, she asked me to send the store to her quickly, and she will also spend thousands of dollars this year.
Hearing her say this, I couldn't help but wonder what made my cousin, who had always been very thrifty, suddenly change. Although we haven't seen each other for three or four years, you must know that my cousin is among family friends, but she is famous for her frugality.
Because her husband is responsible for the mortgage for all his salary, the more than 3,000 yuan her cousin earns every month basically covers all the living expenses of the family. From the cost of the children's education, to the family's food, to the gas, water and electricity, all depend on the cousin's salary.
But even so, my cousin can save a little from more than 3,000 miles every month, and what is even more incredible is that she has saved 100,000 yuan over the years.
However, the price of saving is extreme self-control. My cousin hasn't bought any new clothes since she had a baby. Her clothes are all eliminated by the people around her. Last time, we took her shopping together, and we took a fancy to a small coat of 200, but my cousin was hesitant and reluctant.
What's even more invincible is that my cousin never wears makeup, and even uses the cheapest skin care products, similar to Dabao, to get everything in one bottle.
Thinking of this, I asked my cousin, why is it suddenly going to be a fight? See it? I still changed jobs and raised my salary!
Unexpectedly, my cousin replied: I didn't change jobs, but I still earned a little bit. It's just that a few days ago, I looked in the mirror and suddenly found that I was only in my thirties, but I looked like an aunt in her forties. Not only did he have a bunch of wrinkles, but he didn't even have a decent piece of clothing. When I went out with your brother-in-law, he thought I was ashamed.
My cousin said as if she remembered something sad. After a moment of silence, he spoke with difficulty: Actually, I didn't want to say it, but I really suffocated it. Your brother-in-law seems to have changed his mind, there is someone outside, and he dislikes me at home every day, and he dislikes me for looking old. I don't remember anything I've done for this home. What I desperately save for, not all for him and the child.
After speaking, my cousin sighed lonely, saying that she was now looking at it and regretting her previous frugality. Regardless of whether her husband has changed her mind or not, she has to be kind to herself. Anyway, she is not out of money, at least buy some good clothes, and brand skin care products can still afford it! Otherwise, in case of divorce, she saved 100,000 yuan, and I don't know who will die.
Although my cousin said so, I think that people who are used to saving money are not so easy to change. Also, how much does her husband make, and after paying off the mortgage, can he still play with women? I think she's unfounded. But I can see that my cousin-in-law treats her really badly, at least he is full of disgust, which makes her sad.
Huh! So from the example of my cousin, women really have to treat themselves well. If you're good, your home is good.
Of course, appropriate savings are necessary. After all, who knows at what moment the crisis is. But everybody likes to be pleasing to the eye, everybody loves beautiful things. You are unkempt every day, and it is natural for you to be rejected. Spend a little reasonably, buy your favorite clothes, and match a good-looking bag, just invest in yourself and smile yourself. In this way, my husband has nothing to regret when he runs away, he has used everything he should use, and he has not lost anything that he should enjoy.
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