The most important part of married life is the most important part of married life.
From our life experience, we have found a strange law, that is, there are "mysteries" in the lives of both husband and wife.
What is the "mystery" in this? What can you tell at a glance?
1. Special rules of the life cycle of husband and wife.
There is an elderly couple in their 90s in the village, and they have a very good relationship.
They are open-minded, generous, have a good relationship with their neighbours, and have a very filial piety to their children.
During the holidays, the family will get together and see people's eyes.
As he grew older, his body could no longer withstand any setbacks, and he also suffered from chronic diseases, and eventually passed away.
When her grandfather was alive, he was also sick for a while, but she was in good health, eating, drinking, and lazing.
Originally, both of them lived with their children, but after the old man's death, the old man's condition deteriorated sharply, and he passed away within a week.
In fact, many people have similar experiences, and they also realize that older couples do have a feeling of "fate connected", but there will also be some contradictions.
If a couple dies in their 60s, the other will live longer.
Liaoning netizens left a message saying that she had never seen her mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law died more than 60 years ago and was fine, and then got married again, and is still healthy at the age of 85.
Then she knew that there were a lot of such things.
Second, why you should do it.
The reason for this is not difficult to guess. Older couples are more emotionally connected.
Suddenly, one day, that person left, the sadness and discomfort were irresistible.
That irresistible grief made the other party lose all hope.
Mental damage can cause mental depression, so the body's immunity will decrease, which will eventually affect life.
It also makes sense that if one couple dies in their sixties, the other usually lives a long time.
Elderly people who die at the age of 50-60 may not be fully independent, or their new life is about to be born, and they must use their "heart" to take care of their children and grandchildren.
The so-called "mental strength" refers to spiritual power.
On the contrary, for some ** 10-year-old couples, their children are independent, and their grandchildren are all grown up and rarely spend time with them. But when their wives die, they feel that they have no backbone and their energy disappears.
In addition to this, people in their 60s are generally healthy and can still do the jobs they love.
Moreover, at their age, there is very little real love, so there are often quarrels.
If a person is not so angry, then he can recover from the grief of losing his wife.
3. How can this law be handled reasonably?
The easiest way to solve this problem is to relax.
In the unfortunate event that one of them passes away, the other person should learn how to adjust his emotions as early as possible and face life with an optimistic attitude.
If family members have enough energy, they can spend more time with the abandoned person and provide them with psychological counseling.
If the elderly have enough energy, they can also try to teach him a proper skill, such as paper cutting, painting, etc.
Studies have shown that the lifestyle of one of the spouses will also have a certain impact on the other couple.
Analyze eating habits, work and rest habits, and mental state.
For example, if your wife likes spicy food, even if her husband doesn't like spicy food, her husband will eat it with her.
Therefore, husband and wife should develop a good living habit, less oil and less salt, and have a regular work and rest, so as to improve their own immunity and better prevent and treat diseases.
In addition, you should also pay attention to the physical and mental health of your spouse, remind and enlighten each other, and if your spouse has any problems, you should also actively go to the hospital for **.
But this rule is not absolute, but there are many aspects.
This could be genetically or something else, and you don't have to worry too much about it.
The so-called rules are actually an ordinary phenomenon.
Conclusion: Everyone wants to live a happy life with their significant other for a lifetime, but the reality often backfires.
However, the cycle of life cannot be changed, and the separation of life and death is a problem that we must face.
That said, we should doubly cherish every minute we spend together.
Only by loving each other and working together can our lives become better.