A man shouted hysterically"My mother's life is not easy, if you don't agree with her, let's divorce. ”So what's going on here?
Wang Gang and Li Xiang are a newlywed couple who just got married. They have not been married for a long time, and it can be seen from their daily lives that the two are still in love. Both of them are college students, but they come from different places. Although Wang Gang is good-looking and looks like a big girl from a distance, he comes from a remote rural area, and his parents are also farmers. At home, Wang Gang is equivalent to an "only child". Why? Because Wang Gang has four sisters in front of him, she is the only son. In their family, both parents are patriarchal. For the four sisters in front of him, his parents all think that they are dispensable, only Wang Gang is the baby of the family.
Wang Gang's father is very machismo, and Wang Gang's grandparents always feel that women should be suppressed by men, so Wang Gang's mother has no place in the family, and she has suffered domestic violence for a long time. It is precisely because of living in such a home for a long time that Wang Gang knows deeply:My mother's life was not easy. But he was also invisibly influenced by his father's thoughts: women should submit to men, teach their husbands and children at home, and serve their parents-in-law.
Li Xiang has lived in a scholarly family since she was a child, and her parents love each other. Although they only have one daughter, this daughter is the pearl of their palms, and they guide their daughter correctly, hoping that her daughter can live a sunny and happy life in the future.
Since Wang Gang and Li Xiang got married, because there were only two people living at that time, the husband and wife were usually busy with work. As a result, life is simpler and there are fewer family conflicts. But since the mother-in-law from the countryside came to their house, the family war in their family has never stopped.
When the mother-in-law came to their house, she took up the posture of the mother-in-law. She asked Li Xiang to serve her to eat and drink, and pointed fingers at everything at home, although Li Xiang was angry, but in view of the fact that her mother-in-law had just come, she knocked out her teeth and swallowed it in her stomach, and endured it. But the mother-in-law didn't realize it at all. When Li Xiang habitually called her husband to serve the meal after cooking, the mother-in-law's yin and yang said strangely: "Whose old man still does what his mother-in-law does at home." Then she shouted at her son, "Sit." The son sat down obediently and waited for his daughter-in-law to serve food.
When night fell, after the family was lying in bed, Li Xiang complained to her husband about her mother-in-law, and said that her mother-in-law was at a loss for a day. In fact, Li Xiang didn't have any special malice when she said this, she just hoped that Wang Gang could adjust the relationship between her and her mother-in-law from a neutral point of view, but she didn't expect Wang Gang to say with a gloomy faceMy mother has suffered for half her life, do you still want her to serve you in our family? You have to know that it's not easy for my mom to pull me. Hearing this, Li Xiang was stunned for a moment. She didn't expect her husband to say this, and she didn't react until half a day later. She instigated Wang Gang: ".Your mother's suffering is caused by your father. Do you want to follow in your father's footsteps and let me live in misery? Wang Gang was speechless after hearing Li Xiang's words, but neither of them was convinced, so they glared angrily for a long time, and finally ended with Wang Gang's sentence: "Whoever makes my mother unhappy, I will make him feel bad".
After this incident, the relationship between the husband and wife was obviously affected. But the mother-in-law of the family continued to train her son and daughter-in-law. After the two of them get off work every day, their son and mother-in-law sit on the sofa and watch TV, eating melon seeds, talking and laughing. The daughter-in-law was busy around the apron, and it was obvious that the daughter-in-law was not happy, because she had a gloomy face all day at home and never smiled. But the mother-in-law was very satisfied, and she said to her son: "The defeated daughter-in-law rubs the noodles, and marries a daughter-in-law to pass on the lineage and serve the in-laws." ”
Li Xiang was tortured by both mental and labor every day, and soon her face was sallow and accompanied by vomiting, and she only learned that she was pregnant after going to the hospital for examination. When the mother and son knew that Li Xiang was pregnant, they were as happy as children, especially Li Xiang's mother-in-law sat on the sofa, her face was full of joy and said to herself: "It's good to be pregnant, it's good to be pregnant, and if you are pregnant, you can't run away, and I can be a grandmother." Li Xiang didn't know what her mother-in-law meant, but she knew that her pregnancy made her mother-in-law very happy, and she also hoped to change the relationship between the family through this incident.
But the mother-in-law still tortured her as always, and now there is a new excuse for the torture: "Pregnant women should work more, so that the time for childbirth is faster, and there is more time to sit and lie down, and the child in the belly will not grow large, and it is easy to get uterine adhesions." So their mother and son were arrogant to be the masters at home, and then commanded the free nanny at home to serve them.
Later, Li Xiang couldn't stand the torture of their mother and son, so she told her best friend about the situation at home, and revealed her idea of divorce, and her best friend asked her to ask her husband for help after she went back.
Li Xiang knew that her husband was unreliable, but she still wanted to make a final effort to save her marriage. So in the evening, I talked to my husband about the situation at home, hoping that my husband could persuade my mother-in-law and hire a nanny at the same time. As a result, it can be imagined that her husband is still on the side of her mother-in-law, and she is criticizing Li Xiang again. As for hiring a nanny, of course, my husband is reluctant to pay for it. Because he felt that Li Xiang was young and strong, there was no need to spend that money at all. Li Xiang was completely disappointed in her marriage, since Wang Gang loved her mother so much, let Wang Gang live with her mother.
From that day on, Li Xiang came back late every night because she never wanted to face the mother and son again. As for Wang Gang's mother and son, she always used overtime as a reason.
Half a year later, the child was born and gave birth to a son, which is very much in line with Wang Gang's mother and son. But on the second day of the child's full moon, Li Xiang filed for divorce from Wang Gang flatly. Wang Gang and his mother thought that Li Xiang was joking, because Wang Gang's mother said that "a woman who has given birth to a baby wants more", but Li Xiang ended the marriage without hesitation.
After the divorce, Wang just had to go to work, and the responsibility of taking care of the children naturally fell on his mother. As you can imagine, his mother was dizzy by her grandson. Wang Gang saw that without Li Xiang, life was indeed very difficult, and his mother did not live like a person. So he thought of remarrying, and he called Li Xiang with a shy face, saying that his mother was very tired of taking care of the child, and hoped that Li Xiang could come back. Li Xiang said retaliatory: ".You mother, you love your mother, then let your mother enjoy this life. ”。Even if Li Xiang said this, Wang Gang did not realize his mistake.
Wang Gang later found another daughter-in-law, but soon divorced after giving birth to a daughter, and the reason for the divorce can be imagined. Now Wang Gang has two children, but he does not have a wife, and all the children are taken care of by his grandmother. This may be the consequence of Ma Baonan's excessive love for his mother.
Therefore, many people say that the elderly, never interfere in the lives of young people. Of course, as a young person, you must keep your eyes open when you are looking for a partner, and you must take a detour when you meet Ma Baonan. Because Ma Bao Nan verbally said how to be filial to his mother, in fact, this kind of filial piety is only for his daughter-in-law, as for himself, he really doesn't know what filial piety is, what is responsibility? If you marry such a man, you can only suffer in the end.