The hearts of the strong are often lonely.
This is because the depth of their thinking, the way they see the world, the way they understand life, all make them above ordinary people. Their thinking is ahead of their time, and their depth and breadth are often beyond the comprehension of others. Their lives are more dense and richer. This makes them appear out of place in the crowd and not easily understood. However, it is this loneliness that constitutes their strong heart. Loneliness is their norm; Not being lonely is just another way for them to interpret life.
Their charm does not lie in how many people they can win. It doesn't take much effort to make people appreciate you and like you. Because true excellence is not to please others, but to use one's own light and heat to illuminate the path of life.
Such people, they tell themselves, I'm different. I have my own defined value, which does not come from the praise and liking of the outside world, but from the growth and satisfaction of self-perceived. When you are truly happy, when you are fully committed to doing what you love, when you have a clear goal and are working towards that goal every day, then you can enjoy that solitude to the fullest. Because, even if it may seem like a useless effort to others, for you, it is your life and should be measured by your own vision.
Each of us has a wilderness in our hearts, and we all have difficulties and challenges that we need to face and conquer alone. And the real strong are not those who rely on others and rely on the praise and recognition of the outside world, but those who can insist on maintaining independence from the outside world, loyalty to themselves, and those who can stand independently in the wilderness.
This is life, this is the attitude of the strong. They find strength in loneliness, opportunities in adversity, and peace in storms. They are not afraid of loneliness, because they know that only in the face of loneliness can they truly find themselves and see the truth of the matter.
Therefore, they will tell themselves that although there are countless eyes rolling on you and countless mouths talking behind you in this world, you always only need to compare with yourself, you need to evaluate with your own scale, understand with your own perspective, and live in your own way.
Loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is cowardice and cowardice; It's not sad to be alone, it's sad to lose the courage to believe in yourself. In the adventure of life, we are all lonely travelers on the road, we all need to have the wisdom to face loneliness, to treat loneliness as a ladder of growth, and to use loneliness as a crutch for exploration. Independence is not loneliness, but freedom; Loneliness is not the bitterness of the weak, but the gift of the strong. For the strong, loneliness is a kind of wealth, the direction of their efforts and the reason to persevere.
Therefore, loneliness is also a strength, and loneliness is also a beauty.