Many parents have the experience that their children are here.
In the first and second grades, my grades were particularly good, and I often scored more than 90 or even full marks in the exam, and it was very easy to study. But as soon as I reached the third grade, my grades began to drop inexplicably. Not only that, but a considerable number of children do not listen well in class, and their enthusiasm for learning declines. When they get home, they are not as obedient as they used to be, and sometimes they talk back to their parents. 
So what is the cause of this?
An increase in the difficulty of the course.
Most of the learning content in the first and second grades is relatively simple, and most of the content is memorization and memorization. Even in math, as long as you memorize a few simple algorithms, you can easily get a high score. After entering the third grade, the course becomes more difficult. Chinese reading has certain requirements for children's comprehension ability, and composition also requires children to have certain language expression skills. Mathematics began to appear in decimals, graphs, practical problem solving, etc., which required children to have higher logical thinking skills. Some students are unable to adapt for a while, and some problems arise.
The child's own development.
According to Piaget's theory of cognitive development, the age of 9 to 11 is a critical period for children's thinking development, and their logical thinking ability is further enhanced, and they have a preliminary understanding of some concepts, but they are somewhat vague, which will cause some cognitive conflicts. At the same time, their self-awareness is further developed, and they have their own judgments and attitudes towards the perception of external things. Therefore, they no longer trust teachers and parents unconditionally, and there is a situation of disobedience.
If the phenomenon of third grade is not handled well, it may make children unable to recognize their own problems and lose confidence and interest in learning. There are a few things parents can do to help their children navigate this period.
Parents should understand the characteristics of their children's physical and mental development and the difficulties they encounter.
The decline in children's grades may be caused by the delay in the development of their thinking skills. If the child does not pay attention, it may be that they cannot understand what the teacher is saying. Children like to talk back, which may be because their logical thinking skills are developing. Children are reluctant to do their homework, probably because they are under too much pressure to study. When parents find these problems, don't always criticize their children, but find the real cause and provide effective help. Give your child the opportunity to express themselves and respect their ideas, even if they are immature.
Let children become school masters, perhaps psychological motivation is more important
Nowadays, many people hate chicken soup, and even think that chicken soup has no effect, it will only keep children in a high spirited mood for a day or two.
But since chicken soup has a role for a day or two, why don't we summarize some of the characteristics that chicken soup contains?
From our analysis above, we have learned that many children become more hard-working, and wanting to study well may be related to their self-esteem, self-confidence and concentration.
When these mentalities are completely defeated, it is natural that the child can focus on learning seriously like other top students, at least avoiding some distractions from some unimportant things.
Psychological growth – rebellious consciousness
Nowadays, children are growing psychologically very fast, and many children who are just in the third and fourth grades know what "boyfriend and girlfriend" are, and they are more and more curious about the relationship between men and women;
At the same time, they will show great resistance to the discipline of their parents, and they will subconsciously not do what their parents want them to do, or they will deliberately do not do well, and they will deliberately fail to do well in learning, or they will deliberately be disobedient in class, just like Xixi, write mathematics in Chinese, write English in mathematics, and so on.
A child's rebelliousness is always the most difficult problem for a child to solve, so it is natural for a child's grades to decline.
In the whole six years of primary school, how much effort we adults put in, how much children can gain.
Accompany children through the six years of primary school" tells vivid stories in concise words in terms of the psychological development characteristics of primary school students, the characteristics of the cultural knowledge they have learned, the formation of learning habits, and the cultivation of learning ability. I believe that after reading "Accompanying Children Through Six Years of Primary School", parents and children can easily get rid of the confusion of primary school and truly experience the joy of growing up.
In addition, there is also "Accompanying Children Through the Three Years of Junior High School", which focuses more on how to understand adolescent children and communicate effectively with them. As a parent who came over, the author had times when he was handy and at a loss in the process of accompanying his children, so the examples that happened in the author's house in the book have both success and failure. From the perspective of an educator, the author also wrote about his own awareness and reflection in the book, hoping to be helpful to everyone.
Child, you need to understand that all the effort you put into your studies is ultimately for yourself. Your hard work today will make you brilliant tomorrow, make you a useful talent, and make your life more fulfilling and exciting.
Reading can make you smart, humble, and learned, and ultimately make you an elegant and brilliant person. Without the accumulation of reading and studying, it is impossible to have the glory of tomorrow. When you create a better future with your own efforts, when you feel the value of your life, when you realize your life dreams, you will be able to understand the true purpose of studying, and you will be grateful for your sweat and efforts!
I have read these books many times, and each time there is a new inspiration, I can't help but sigh at the importance and hardship of education, when you finish reading, you will find that those confusion, confusion, and suffering in your education, especially in getting along with children, have been given solutions, and some even have steps.
And ** is not expensive, the money of a meal, your life may be changed.
It would be better if you could read with other parents, receive the influence of wisdom together, and give it away, and others will praise you for your taste.
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