Nowadays, many parents have such a question, is the child too timid and afraid of things? If the child is timid, is there any way for parents to help the child improve? If you have such doubts, read on.
It is possible that children are born with timidity, and not every child is born brave, which has little to do with the child's gender and age. There are many factors that affect whether a child is brave, one is some things that the child encounters in life, as well as the attitude of the people around the child towards him, which will affect the child's character.
1. Let children learn to refuse
There are some exciting projects, and it is understandable that children dare not complete them, after all, those dangerous projects may indeed cause some dangerous consequences, so when children cannot break through their psychological barriers and dare not challenge these dangerous projects, parents should not blindly force their children.
It is better to tell the child directly, and when the child cannot break through, he will learn to refuse directly. Don't feel oppressed because others can do it but you can't, everyone will have weaknesses. Even if you can't, it doesn't mean you're worse than others.
2. Let go appropriately and let children try independently
Parents will always fight"Good for the kids"in the name of restricting their movements. In fact, it is also necessary to let go appropriately, and the child has more freedom to try things that he has never done before, such as playing in the water, playing in the mud, etc. Even if a child encounters setbacks and failures in his attempts, it is a valuable experience for him.
3. Don't overprotect your child and cultivate his independence
Only by letting go at the right time can the child really grow, after all, the child is going to leave us. A child's guts can be exercised. As children get older, they will always become more and more courageous. Parents should not overprotect their children, but should give their children more time and opportunities, so that their children can get enough exercise and improve their courage in the process of challenging again and again.
In fact, the so-called education is to start from the details, so that children can avoid mistakes and reduce the probability of going the wrong way. In fact, the most important thing isIt is necessary to focus on the cultivation of character and character。Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's good behavior habits in a timely manner for children's growthCultivating excellent character habitsHaving a confident and optimistic attitude, learning to control their emotions, and reasonably resolving negative emotions in life are the skills that children should learn.
There are no bad children in this world, only parents who can't teach, and parents put more effort into growing upGive the right guidance and raise excellent childrenIt's actually quite easy.
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