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Hello everyone, I am Guo Ma, a family education expert. Urging marriage, this word is familiar to many young people, right? Every festive season, they miss their relatives, but when they return home, single children often have to face "warm care" from their parents and relatives - urging them to get married.
Look at you, your classmates' children are all in school, why are you still a bachelor? Hurry up and find a partner to marry, so that you can have a complete home! ”…I believe many people have heard these words. Parents are really heartbroken for their children's marriage, not only going around on blind dates, but also mobilizing seven aunts and eight aunts to urge together. Some even invited a feng shui master, hoping to promote the children's peach blossom luck by changing the layout of the home. Hey, that's a laugh and cry.
I have a friend who was forced to choke by the family's urging to marry. After every blind date, his parents have to ask him non-stop, which makes him feel pressured. Finally, at the age of 29, he hadn't found a suitable partner, and his parents went to fortune telling. The fortune teller said that he could only meet true love at the age of 34, which made his parents relax a little. Unexpectedly, my friend met his crush at the age of 31, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up, and they soon entered the palace of marriage. This is really in response to that sentence: there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no fate to meet on the other side.
Today's young people didn't grow up as vegetarians. Faced with the pressure of urging marriage, they began to learn to "reverse urge marriage". No, my niece Shin Shin is a prime example. She has been urged to find a boyfriend since college, and now she is even more urged after graduation. But Xinxin, not only did she not dislike urging marriage, but also took the initiative to let her parents and relatives introduce her to a blind date. At first, everyone was quite happy, thinking that this child had finally opened his mind. Unexpectedly, Xinxin went on blind dates more often than eating, and she could hear her and her parents discussing the situation of the blind date every day. This can make the parents anxious, and they begin to worry that Shin Shin will not be too hasty about the marriage matter. So they began to persuade Xinxin in reverse: "Child, marriage is a lifelong event, you can't rush it!" You have to pick slowly, it's not too late to find a really suitable person and get married! ”
Shin Shin's wave of "reverse marriage urging" operation really caught relatives off guard. They originally thought that Xinxin would resist the blind date as before, but they didn't expect her to take the initiative to urge marriage. They didn't know what to do for a moment. Some relatives don't even dare to come to the door to urge marriage anymore, because as soon as they come, they will be urged by Xinxin to introduce her to more blind dates. It's really laughable!
Regarding the phenomenon of "reverse marriage urging", netizens' evaluations are also mixed. Some people think that it is a smart way to cope, so that parents and relatives will not be urged to marry so often; Others believe that this practice is a bit extreme, and may cause disappointment and frustration for parents and relatives. Others said they understood, because everyone has their own ideas and choices.
In fact, whether it is marriage urging or reverse marriage urging, it reflects the parents' concern and expectations for their children. They hope that their children can find their own happy home and live a happy life as soon as possible. However, marriage is an important event in life after all, and you can't be in a hurry or be sloppy. Therefore, as children, we should understand the painstaking efforts of our parents, and at the same time, we should also have our own opinions and choices. Only in this way can we find a happy destination that is truly suitable for us!