Dong Yuhui once shared his educational philosophy, and he gave valuable suggestions on how to guide children to study seriously. He stressed that parents should not only tell their children the big truths, such as getting into a good high school, a good university, and getting a good job, which may be too distant and vague for their children. Children are more inclined to see immediate practical benefits, and they are no strangers to the idea that working part-time is easier than studying.
When a child is confused or resistant to learning, parents should get to know what is really going on in their child's heart. They may wonder why they are working so hard, or even find it easier to work part-time. In this regard, parents should tell their children that although reading is hard, life will be even more difficult if they do not study.
In order to stimulate the child's intrinsic motivation, the following suggestions are made:
1.Follow the example of a top student: In school, top students tend to have more freedom. After entering the society, excellent people will also get more respect and privileges. This can motivate the child to recognize the value of hard work.
2.Give yourself a privileged opportunity: Encourage your child to give their best for a period of time and experience the heights and achievements they can achieve with their own efforts.
3.Keep working hard: When children work hard and get good grades, this state of hard work will gradually become their norm.
4.Rely on yourself: Encourage children to cherish the present moment and work hard. Remember, every question, every text, every paper is a stepping stone to a farther place.
In the process of educating their children, parents need to always keep in mind that reading is not only for the pursuit of material interests, but also to expand their horizons and enrich their hearts. Through guidance and inspiration, we help children realize the importance of learning, stimulate their inner motivation, and make them willing to take the initiative to pursue a better self.
In conclusion, educating children is a complex and meticulous process. Parents need to guide their children in an appropriate way, so that they understand the importance of learning, and stimulate their intrinsic motivation to pursue a better version of themselves. Let's work together to sow the seeds of hope for our children's future!